"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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khussa28

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I know this is only a show but if you watched it earlier when charlie sheen
was the main character, in the show he always gets the woman, I was wondering is he the typical alpha male people talk about, do you have to be like him, hes always confident, calm.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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khussa28 said:
I know this is only a show but if you watched it earlier when charlie sheen
was the main character, in the show he always gets the woman, I was wondering is he the typical alpha male people talk about, do you have to be like him, hes always confident, calm.
Charlie Sheen is my role model!!:rockon:

Haha no, really, He IS Don Juan:D
 

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Wow..Funny i got the show on right now and was just thinking about something similar with the situations ive been, basically being up front, direct/indrect with what u want, push pull situations
 

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I guess. i think he scored a lot because he was confident/didn't give a ****/did his own thing.

Alan scores to some extent, but is more AFC, hence his divorce.
 

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ilikecharlene said:
I guess. i think he scored a lot because he was confident/didn't give a ****/did his own thing.

Alan scores to some extent, but is more AFC, hence his divorce.
Alan is a total immasculated afc, bending to the will of any woman. Charlie, is cool, confident, smooth. And most importantly Happy. id actually edit my previous post and say he's half DJ half PUA, because getting the pvssy does hold quite an impotrant part of who he is.

still, Charlie:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flashpoint

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khussa28 said:
I know this is only a show but if you watched it earlier when charlie sheen
was the main character, in the show he always gets the woman, I was wondering is he the typical alpha male people talk about, do you have to be like him, hes always confident, calm.
most of the time he is drunk and he is not ashamed of paying hookers in case he has a 5 minute dry spell. role model? well ...
 
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