"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Turning My Life Around

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yungahdubz

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Yo guys, I’ve been a member of this forum for quite a while, but I’ve never really been on it very much, until now. I recently encountered a life changing experience that’s given me a whole new perspective on life. From this I learned … life is just too short. So I’ve decided to change my life for the better, I’m going to I’ve life to its fullest. I know what I’m typing sounds cheesy but I don’t care as this is what I’m going to do.

I really like the idea of becoming a guy that is charming, funny, , charismatic etc.

I’d like tips on how to become more:

Charming
Confident
Charismatic
And become a better conversationalist

So the first step I’m going to take of turning my life around is trying to become a DJ :D, and I’d like you guys to help me. I’ve read the bible, but I’m asking you guys as you’ll probably be able to explain in more detail :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Heres the keys in dealing with others:

-Smile
-Talk about what other people are interested in, not about what you like
-Be interested in others
-Ask questions
-Don't complain, condemn, or criticize
-Admit you when you are wrong, and don't tell people they are wrong
-Appreciate people

I am reading the book "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie who studied how to have sucessful human relationships. Of course, you have to incorporate these things. Try even if just for today or tomorrow. I actually have half the book highlighted to go through it and pick up keys points every once in awhile to remind me. Remember, everyone craves to be important, which is why you should be interested in others if you expect others to be interested in you.

As for yourself, thought is supreme. Some steps would be to start working out and exercising. It does wonders as I am sure you will read everywhere. But reading is phase one, phase two is action. So go for a run if its nice out, buy some simple dumbells and do lifts every two days or so. And keep at it. After I started working out for about a week, I had more energy and positive thinking, not only about myself but about everything else.

Another step would be to relax, stop worrying about things you can't control, and do different things once in awhile. Remember that the same situations usually end up with same results. Now repeat that again, you can't expect different outcomes if you do not do anything different. Hopefully by you reading some things, it will help initiate a change.

The two biggest words of all to improving yourself: Action and Commitment
 
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