Glassguy
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1.) I wasnt arguing.You argue yet validate my point. By stating high physical attraction can be lowered demonstrates there is more to the table than looks alone. You can for example demonstrate low status in your sub-commuications and that physical attraction that was just right there evaporates in a blink.
Further, you state the girl had low interest before the meet and that’s why this happened. How could she have low IL if she never met him?? LOL
Glassguy, you do go out on OLD dates, right? If you do, you will certainly understand that most people are very different in person than what you envision via their OLD profile.
There is no “game” until the meet. Period.
2.) I never said that there isn't much more than just looks. Search my threads. I say quite the opposite. Anyone with abundance is going to screen much deeper than one without.
3.) Interest starts with attraction. Period. Please prove me wrong. She had seen him....correct? It takes a woman merely seconds based on LOOKS to decide her initial interest/attraction level. That needle can be moved up or down based on what happens next.
You just proved that point using OLD as your example. OLD is all attraction based on looks. That's why looks get you in the door.
Low/mild interest early on equals she doesnt find you that attractive. Apparently was the case with OP since she had to be persuaded to see him. I dont see the need to spend resources (time and money) to further validate that for her. I'm not her type? No problem. I'm dust in the wind. That's my outlook.
4.) I dont do OLD anymore. I am spinning too many plates as it and I dont have time to be fvcking with what is primarily low caliber women. I do much better IRL where I know what they really look like and how they act, personality etc.
I dont have time to go see a woman who has put on 40 lbs since her OLD pics or has the personality of a rock, or worse, she's entitled. I avoid the pitfalls of OLD and hammer away in real life interactions to potentially add to or replace my existing plates.