"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Turning a 6 Day Split to 3 Day Split

ebracer05

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Guys, I just won't have the time for the next month or two to be in the gym 6 days a week so I need to consolidate my current routine and I'm looking for advice. This is where I'm at right now:

Mon - Chest (variation from dumbbell for 2 weeks then barbell for 2 weeks then machine for 2 weeks)

Flat bench press - 15, 5, 8, 8 all to failure
Incline Bench Press - Same as above
Flys - 15, 5, 5, 8

Tues - Back

Bent over single hand rows - 15, 8, 5, 8
Lat pull down - Same as above
Seated narrow rows - Same as above
Dead lifts - 12, 5, 8

Wed - Shoulders

Military press - 15, 8, 5, 8
Wings - 15, 8, 5, 8
Forward rope shoulder raises - 15, 8, 5, 8
Shrugs - 15, 12, 8, 8

Thursday - Legs

Squats - 12, 5, 8, 8
Hamstring curls - 12, 8, 5, 8
Calves - 15, 15, 8, 10
Quad Curls - 12, 8, 5, 8

Friday - Biceps/Triceps

Standing bent bar curls - 15, 8, 5, 8
Standing dumbbell hammer curls - 15, 8, 5, 8
Standing rope straight bar pyramid starting from max at 8

Overhead rope extensions - 15, 8, 5, 8
Straight rope pull downs - 15, 8, 5, 8
Standing rope pyramid

Saturday - Abs

Hanging leg raises - 15, 8, 5, 8
Weighted decline situps - 15, 8, 5, 8
Oblique crunches - 30, 30, 30, 30
Weighted side bends - 15, 8, 5, 8


This has been a great routine... after taking time off, killing myself for about 2 months studying for a grad school entrance exam and letting my diet go to h#ll and no lifting at all... I went from 182lbs to 158lbs. I was 158lbs on May 24th. This morning I was 185lbs and my body fat is lower than it was before I lost the weight. For reference, my straight bench on Jan 10th was 8x175lbs, 185lbs, 195lbs. In May I was doing well to get in 3x8 at 165-175lbs. Now it's 15x195, 8x220, 5x240, 8x230. All of my other lifts have increased comparably.

However, I'm back to being overloaded with school and have to consolidate this. The diet I am on alone is taking up more time than I'd like. A 3 day split would be optimal for my schedule. I had a legit trainer get me on the diet/routine but I can't afford the guy anymore and know you all give stellar advice. Optimally I'd like to cut 2 exercises from each day but I'd like some feedback on what to cut.

If you'd like to see the diet, I can post that also. Thank you in advance for the help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I use to do a little bodybuilding before I turned to strength training. A 3-day split I used was...

Day 1: Chest/Back
Day 2: Shoulders/Arms
Day 3: Legs/Lower Back
 

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ebracer05 said:
Guys, I just won't have the time for the next month or two to be in the gym 6 days a week so I need to consolidate my current routine and I'm looking for advice. This is where I'm at right now:

Mon - Chest (variation from dumbbell for 2 weeks then barbell for 2 weeks then machine for 2 weeks)

Flat bench press - 15, 5, 8, 8 all to failure
Incline Bench Press - Same as above
Flys - 15, 5, 5, 8

Tues - Back

Bent over single hand rows - 15, 8, 5, 8
Lat pull down - Same as above
Seated narrow rows - Same as above
Dead lifts - 12, 5, 8

Wed - Shoulders

Military press - 15, 8, 5, 8
Wings - 15, 8, 5, 8
Forward rope shoulder raises - 15, 8, 5, 8
Shrugs - 15, 12, 8, 8

Thursday - Legs

Squats - 12, 5, 8, 8
Hamstring curls - 12, 8, 5, 8
Calves - 15, 15, 8, 10
Quad Curls - 12, 8, 5, 8

Friday - Biceps/Triceps

Standing bent bar curls - 15, 8, 5, 8
Standing dumbbell hammer curls - 15, 8, 5, 8
Standing rope straight bar pyramid starting from max at 8

Overhead rope extensions - 15, 8, 5, 8
Straight rope pull downs - 15, 8, 5, 8
Standing rope pyramid

Saturday - Abs

Hanging leg raises - 15, 8, 5, 8
Weighted decline situps - 15, 8, 5, 8
Oblique crunches - 30, 30, 30, 30
Weighted side bends - 15, 8, 5, 8


This has been a great routine... after taking time off, killing myself for about 2 months studying for a grad school entrance exam and letting my diet go to h#ll and no lifting at all... I went from 182lbs to 158lbs. I was 158lbs on May 24th. This morning I was 185lbs and my body fat is lower than it was before I lost the weight. For reference, my straight bench on Jan 10th was 8x175lbs, 185lbs, 195lbs. In May I was doing well to get in 3x8 at 165-175lbs. Now it's 15x195, 8x220, 5x240, 8x230. All of my other lifts have increased comparably.

However, I'm back to being overloaded with school and have to consolidate this. The diet I am on alone is taking up more time than I'd like. A 3 day split would be optimal for my schedule. I had a legit trainer get me on the diet/routine but I can't afford the guy anymore and know you all give stellar advice. Optimally I'd like to cut 2 exercises from each day but I'd like some feedback on what to cut.

If you'd like to see the diet, I can post that also. Thank you in advance for the help

Hey man, this isn't a 3-day, but it's a 4-day, and each workout takes about 60-90 minutes depending how much your head is in the game.

Check it out, I just finished a 12-week cycle and made some decent gains all around.

The concept here is periodization, so reps cycle from 12-15, 9-11, 6-8, 3-5 in 4 week cycles.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/docs/2011/shortcut-to-size-e-book.pdf

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/shortcut-to-size-microcycles.html


I've been really trying to spread this around because of how effective I've found it.

Not a 3-day, but maybe it'll help or give you some more things to build from!
 
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