"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please help me with your DJ advise guys.

I am 21(AFC) seing a 18yr old female.
She tells me that I should find some time when my parents are not home. She wanted plans in advance for a hotel. I let her know that I want to get closer to. A day before it happens I made the plans and "asked her" about it. Thats probably why I got "I dont think it is a good idea". Than she goes out with someone else (she tells me two days after).
She calls me everyday, 32 emails last month.
Her situation. Very upset she messed up 1 out of 2 chances for college entrance exam. Busy with work this week.

What DJ steps would you take? I am being an AFC about her thinking this will be on and off. I'll definately respond your DJ results. Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Sounds like your to available.

Back off - be busy and chase other women - if you already are, chase harder.

Skip phone calls - spend a day not responding to her emails.

Be busy. Be occupied with other things.
 
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Originally posted by NewMan
Sounds like your to available.

Back off - be busy and chase other women - if you already are, chase harder.

Skip phone calls - spend a day not responding to her emails.

Be busy. Be occupied with other things.
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After doing those steps. Say we were back in the sitaution about sex. I want to tell her I think of her that way. How would you DJ's respond to the unexpecterd - you think you can have sex with me? Tests she throws at me. Can you guys create some conversation examples? Thanks
 
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