"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trying to get ex Back, need help

flows101

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Wake the FUVK up dude your acting like a NEEDY ****, she is only special in your HEAD, if you were out approaching & banging other girls you would not even THINK about trying to get this ***** back in your life.

All this energy you’re expanding on trying to get her back, instead why not use it to find out the REAL reason WHY she dumped your NEEDY ASS in the 1st place.
And take Proactive steps to prevent it from happening again when you find that other “special girl”.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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she is only special in your HEAD

Yep. There is a line from the Book of Pook:

there comes a young man who has lost the girl of his dreams, who doesn't realize that it was the dream that made her divine, not her making the dream

She is just a girl. Dating and fvcking other women without bothering to explain any of it to her, or tell her about it, is what you should do. You don't have to tell her you have another women; they are good at being able to sense it.
 
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You need to calm down!! It's been 8 months - if it hasn't happened yet then it most likely will never happen!! I know your problem - Never become "FRIENDS" with your girl!!!! If you are a friend then you are no one special - you are just another friend!!! You want her to see you as much more than a friend, such as a future husband!!

You are still having sex with her so she is only using you as a sperm injector - as a sexual toy - a human dildo!!! stop i!!! You are acting and sounding like a girl!!

If you want to get her back then you must know the reason why she left you!!! Only you know that - and not us!!!
 

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The answer to this thread is just an emphatic NO. we've all been there, and even if it works out it's not worth the effort. Theres much better out there just waiting for you.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Untrue. There are different levels and layers to a woman. If you believe this it's only because you have neither the mental fortitude or psychological constitution to peel each of those layers to get to the heart of her and what value she can bring to your life.

Don't construe this as a personal attack on you brother. Instead, view this as a suggestion to open your mind to the inner workings of women and not the blatant bullsh!t they have on the surface.
karmasutra.. i enjoy reading ur posts, they are usually quite insightful... i speak from my personal experience, perhaps i am simple minded... i've been with my share of women, and i've seen something special in each of them (or else i wouldnt give them my time of day) BUT in the end, it all ends up the same.... enjoy the time u are with them, but know it wont last forever.. women are a roller coaster, you take the highs with the lows... hence why i said IN THE END they are all the same.. until you find somebody you'll be with forever that feels the same way about you FOREVER.. the only exception to the rule..

anyways, hope you keep on posting and no offense was taken.. i dont take offense to constructive criticism :)

take care.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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