"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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True Prizing?

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K2000kidd

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K how do DJs become the "prize" if we have to initiate most of the time

What if they had to seduce US
1 Getting her to approach YOU
2 HER offering a phone number before having to ask for it
3 getting HER to kiss you instead of going for the kiss
4 Getting her to isolate YOU

has this ever been done?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's a mindset you can develop. Be the prize and think like the prize. Always keep it in mind that you are the prize.

I don't think quality women would be that forward to chase you like that etc but they have their own ways of showing you they are interested in you, like flirting etc so thats how they make the first move.
 
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slaog said:
I don't think quality women would be that forward to chase you like that etc but they have their own ways of showing you they are interested in you, like flirting etc so thats how they make the first move.
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I totally agree with you.
 
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