"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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True or False?

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Wilko

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I'm of the opinion that if a normal* woman is attracted to you enough to kiss you (properly) then she's attracted to you enough to fvck you, given time and opportunity**.

*normal meaning she doesn't have any crippling intimacy issues.
**and a lack of self-sabotage on your part.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That seems to me like a reasonable assumption since you also mention : "given time and opportunity."

The "**and a lack of self-sabotage on your part." really nails it on the head. There would be a lot to say about this. It's incredible how many guys manage to lose a sure thing.
 
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