"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tried something totally different tonight

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i went out to this club tonight that was having a huge party and I knew there was going to be a shlt ton of girls out there. So i did something totally different, to see how the girls would react, just for my curiosity sakes. I spiked up my hair all crazy, put on a nice black button up shirt with the collar loose, a nice tie with it loose, a pair of khakis that are all torn up at the bottom, and just started walking around the club talking to everyone like i owned the place. Once i made a few rounds, within about an hour, I had girls stopping me wanting me to take a picture with them, I had girls groping my chest, and grabbing my ass. I had girls grabbing me to dance with them, and I literally did nothing to envoke it. Usually I go with a nice shirt and khakis or jeans, but no tie and with my hair down and brushed forward. Just a small change like that, and going around talking to everybody, guys and girls, made a huge difference.

Funny story that goes along with it. theres this girl thats a friend of mine that was out at the club tonight. I was on the other side of the club (lounge side), and thought i saw her. This chick looked almost identical to my friend, and i walked up from the side of her, put my arm around her and said "WTF?" thats all. She looked at me and said "What the fukk?" like a question, at that point i realized it wasnt my friend, and she was sitting there with 1 other girl and 4 guys. So now its time to put my A game on. I played it off, asking her what was going on, and introduced myself to the whole table. her and her friend started hitting on me in front of the 4 guys. Im like seriously "WTF???". I could seriously get away with anything tonight. it was rediculous. confidence, confidence, confidence. got 2 numbers, and the girls wanted mine too on the spot. one of them just texted me just now. i like the new me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha congrats on the macking bro keep it up... Confident enough to try crazy **** cool
 

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going out again tonight. doing the same thing. Ill report back later and give an update
 

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tonight was pretty weak. I approached an absolute bombshell HB9.5 at the resturant we had dinner at, (i was dead sober btw). At first glance i saw a ring on her left ring finger, but one of my buddies informed me it was on her middle finger. I went up to her while she was at the bar getting an order and asked her about it, and busted on her for switching the ring to a different finger when she saw me at the table she was tending. it was pure gold. i invited her to come out with us to a popular club and she said she would be there for sure, but when i got there a bunch of drama was going down and we ended up leaving before the chick showed up. i think ill go back to the resturant next weekend and get the number. I was in a hurry to leave, and she was really busy trying to close up the resturant and i didnt number close, dumbass move.

Next approach was a HB9 at the 3rd club we went to, and of course my dumbass didnt check the left ring finger in advance. I spent about 10 minutes talking to her and her friend (7.5), come to find out shes married. I had her going hardcore though. Busted on her shoes bad, and it was priceless. Her friend was being bombarded by 3 tools, and when the lights came back on, i just bounced.

Not as sucessfull as last night, but I think im in a good situation with the girl from the resturant. hopefully she showed up, and of course i wasnt there. next weekend will be priceless when i show up at the resturant. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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