"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tricky Situation, Help Needed!

BossMan

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ok, i know this girl, and i know she's attracted to me cuz i got drunk and made out with her at a party...yes she was drunk too, but we went on a small date after that. anyways shes home for the summer but she comes back in 2 weeks cuz she goes to the university in my town.

shes looks about a 7 or 7.5, but has the potential for more, you'll see. but when you counter in the amazing personality, all the same interests and bands as me, which can be hard to come by, and the sexiest
voice ive ever heard, she goes up to an 8.5 9 to me.

anyways, her dilemma is that where most girls have peach fuzz on thier face, shes italian, and hers is dark, so that she ends up having a little bit of a mustache. i kno, i made out with a girl with a mustache...i know its funny i laughed at it myself.

anyways im trying to figure out how i can get her to get rid of this cuz she's definitely gf material, except for that little issue.

im thinking of negging her like, you have peach fuzz on your upper lip, its cute...but it would be hard for me to say somethin like that. i dunno.

any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gray_fox_9

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I'd advise against making a neg on her peach fuzz. Girls are very self conscious about the hair above their lips. I know because I negged a girl once about it and she almost punched me in the face....LOL.......
 

sexybeast

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LOL thanks for making me laugh mate. Maybe, when she falls asleep get a razor out and shave it off... I dunno :D
 
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