"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wintrop

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I'm going traveling for a few months in Australia. Any advice from anyone who has done some traveling. I'm going to mostly be in hostels just wondering how that is going to work.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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meitenesrigas

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Australia is a wealthy country with not so hot girls. A terrible combination. Staying in a hostel is the last thing you want to do. Backpackers are the single most annoying thing on this planet.
 

duke007

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first big overseas trip? awesome

which city are you visiting?
There are quite a few decent backpacker joints (and tourist pubs) around melbourne. My tip - check out a busy Internet cafe (in backpacker part of town). Desperately needing an email for a meeting one day, I went in and the place was filled with hot tourists. Spoke to an English woman and some cute Germans with poor English.
you'll do well i'm sure
 
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