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[green69]

Anyways there is this girl I have been flirting with the last month or so at work. She is prolly about a 6, not bad looking but I am not interested...but the day can be slow and it's always good for practice you know?

So we have a friendly work relationship, and she said a couple things during the day which stood out. She asked me to do something for her...and I said "maybe..." and did it anyway. After that happened...

1) then she said "You have an attitude you know..." in a friendly tone.

then later I came back from doing something for a couple of minutes, and I said "Did ya miss me?" and she replied in a kidding tone "ya I just cried myself to tears..." or somethin like that. Then right after that she's like...

2) "You're a terrible flirt you know..."

lol...anyways do 1) and 2 ) have any hidden meaning like half the things girls say? I know I will get a lot of people saying "who cares what she says etc just ask her out!" but I am not interested. I am just curious, and wanna make sure that whatever my mentality I have isn't totally off or anything...thx.

 

[Black_Italian]

It means:

Are you gay?
Do you like penis?

The answer is YES you do

Ninja Out

 

[Alphathree]

That's some good flirting you've got going on. There's also subtle testing: don't let the fact that she's judging you bother you.

NEVER *adjust* your "attitude" because she doesn't approve of it, or your "bad flirting" techniques. You're doing well.

One girl I flirt with always says "you're so ****y!" I just ignore her and/or respond with ball-busting comments.

This girl is definitely into me. She punched me several dozen times in a row on one occasion.

Our interactions are much like the ones you're describing.

Up the ante a bit... use some kino, keep teasing, ignore her from time to time. She'll melt more. Instant date her, get her alone, kiss her.

EDIT: BUT DO _NOT_ *lean* when you do this! Oh dear god I've ruined it for myself so many times by saying "ah ha, she's into me" and then trying too hard to go to the next step and killing it.

 

[green69]

Originally posted by Alphathree
That's some good flirting you've got going on. There's also subtle testing: don't let the fact that she's judging you bother you.

NEVER *adjust* your "attitude" because she doesn't approve of it, or your "bad flirting" techniques. You're doing well.

One girl I flirt with always says "you're so ****y!" I just ignore her and/or respond with ball-busting comments.

This girl is definitely into me. She punched me several dozen times in a row on one occasion.

Our interactions are much like the ones you're describing.

Up the ante a bit... use some kino, keep teasing, ignore her from time to time. She'll melt more. Instant date her, get her alone, kiss her.

EDIT: BUT DO _NOT_ *lean* when you do this! Oh dear god I've ruined it for myself so many times by saying "ah ha, she's into me" and then trying too hard to go to the next step and killing it.

Well I'm not really interested in dating/kissing her or anything like that. Just someone to flirt with to kill time at work. I was just wanted to make sure I wasn't coming across as a total loser with my flirting, and I'm getting the impression I'm doing ok so I'm satisfied.