Tough Question by a g/f

[Bourne]

Well I told her where I see us.

I said I want to take this as it comes and I enjoy being with you, sharing moments and creating expereiences, but I don't know where this will lead. I don't want to be unfair to you.

She didn't like what she heard and we spend few hours talking. She said she still wants to be with me despite the things I've said.

I told her this should end, but she didn't think it should yet.

Well fellas, this is either really dumb idea to keep going or not.

I'll let you know..........

 

[Tazman]

If you "know" you aren't going to be with her why is she your girlfriend? That's probably what's running through her head, and your answer makes her feel like she's being used until someone better comes along. Why not just say you "don't" know and let things happen as they may? I can only assume you'd say something like that to girl you aren't into because you know it'll hurt their feelings.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

BOURNE: I'm here to help. Now see to it you read your own signature and practice what you preach.

Funny how questions like this weed out the ONEitis, serial monogamists.

Originally posted by al77
Exactly!
I am surprised other posters suggested something very arrogant as the answer. What would it accomplish? Show him as a prize?
Yes, it will.. the prize she doesn't want anymore, a prize for somebody else. Sure.

We shoudl realise that either a man say "yes, sure, you, you , you.." or he is toast and he's gonna dump him next day/month.

Maybe some simple but definite "Married to you if you behave well" would work much better.

And after having one girlfriend his whole life, this is a good idea because,...? God forbid the guy go out and spin more plates. He might miss out on the ONE for him. *hock, spit*

Plate Theory

Originally posted by laffytaffygirl
if you guys decide to get involved with more than one girl at a time I suggest you just not have a relationship with any girl until the time comes for you to commit to one person in a relationship.

Best advice I've read from a girl on this site. At 26 with only one or two girls experience my advice exactly.