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[StrayCat]

How do you wear a jacket and pants in Florida? Isn't it hot and humid?

 

[StrayCat]

I don't know what it would take to get to 80%, let alone 90%, or if it is even possible.

I haven't even stepped foot in the gym yet. I also think spray tan would help.

Eat some weight gainer and you'd have the mass you are looking for.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I typically do drinks in a casual place.

What is a "casual place?"

The 2nd place I suggested, I thought was casual, but apparently she did not. It is a restaurant called Bahama Breeze that is close to both of our houses. I had imagined sitting at the bar, but she thought I meant sitting down for a meal.

What's below that? A dive bar?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

She might ghost you now or flake on you on date night. That's possible and that's OK. You will have many women reject you. Even the most handsome or seasoned guys get rejected. You will need to learn how to manage rejection if you want to succeed in this "game."

I notice you conversed with only two girls in the last four days. With those pics, you should be conversing with 10+ girls and scheduling 5+ dates. Don't employ the sniper mentality that Dave does with LTRs towards dating. Shoot to schedule 5+ dates a weekend, 2/3 on Friday and 2/3 on Saturday. Double- and triple- book them.

Also Tinder and Bumble are free sites. This means many attention wh0res and women with bfs/husbands looking to waste your time. Stick to the online template I provided in the other thread to streamline the dating process. Also join Match as it's a paid site with women (who also paid) looking to meet and you can mass-email openers to women of your choice, with an average closing ratio of 1 date per 10 emails.

She already cancelled.

Saying...

Her: I respect your choice but I think we are at different points in our life. As weird as it sounds, I don't feel comfortable sitting down for a meal for a first meet but I appreciate the offer and good luck.

I guess I learned not to be too pretentious or try to be fancy going to upscale places.

I would have been happy meeting for a drink, but she misunderstood.

I don't get enough matches to schedule that many, and a lot of my matches look like this...

https://www.dropbox.com/s/269qpfwvulvavtg/Screenshot_2018-04-04-23-14-02.png?dl=0

I would rather kill myself than go out with a "girl" like that.

 

[The Diver]

Me: Are you free tomorrow night? Let's meet at xxx (place) at xxx (time).

Next time Rich, say this:
"Me: Are you free tomorrow night? Let's have a DRINK at xxx , place yyy ,time zzz. "

I never invited any of my date to a restaurant for a first date. It easy, casual, and in a relaxed atmosphere.

(I actually had one case/ date who offer to meet at a restaurant, to which I said a never do restaurant for a first date and prefer a drink date in a casual relaxed place for a first date, she said It's fine with her, but later canceled,,, Gold digger??? Free dinner???,,,, Who care ! )

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Next time Rich, say this:
"Me: Are you free tomorrow night? Let's have a DRINK at xxx , place yyy ,time zzz. "

I never invited any of my date to a restaurant for a first date. It easy, casual, and in a relaxed atmosphere.

(I actually had one case/ date who offer to meet at a restaurant, to which I said a never do restaurant for a first date and prefer a drink date in a casual relaxed place for a first date, she said It's fine with her, but later canceled,,, Gold digger??? Free dinner???,,,, Who care ! )

I don't know what a "casual" place is. To me, the bar at a restaurant would be casual.

Is she wanting me to take her to a dive bar?

 

[The Diver]

the bar at a restaurant would be casual.

Yes it is , but you have to be clear : Let's have a chat over a drink. It's sound non-committal , low pressure (on her behalf ) and have a relaxed and casual vibe.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Yes it is , but you have to be clear : Let's have a chat over a drink. It's sound non-committal , low pressure (on her behalf ) and have a relaxed and casual vibe.

Okay, but besides a bar at a restaurant, what else would be considered casual?

 

[sosousage]

Okay, but besides a bar at a restaurant, what else would be considered casual?

so you had a date from tinder already or not?

 

[The Diver]

Okay, but besides a bar at a restaurant, what else would be considered casual?

Well , for me it a decent nice bar, and not too noisy so you'll be able to actually hear each other without screaming.

Also, I'm living near the beach, and in a weekend I offer to meet up for a morning coffee at a nice cafe on the esplanade near me, Fu*ck, I love having coffee at the beach,, lol, this way I killing two birds in one shot,,, (Although date in the morning is not recommended on this forum, it's never had a negative impact on my date progress)
It can be a caffe or a drink on lake, a botanical garden cafe/bar,,, Think about any place that have a relax vibe.

 

[Murk]

Casual, any pub or bar.

Protip: find a couple good ones, all nearby, use the same route with different women so it flows from one venue to another, you'll feel comfortable and convey confidence/assertiveness too.

Where I work, Central London, bars galore. Usual drink is like £5 a beer, £10 ****tail, £20-25 bottle of wine. I've found an absolute hidden gem where all drinks are half price so it's my first stop with a girl to get some drinks down us (on me). Then I have a few options, bit more rowdy, bit more quite and dark.

Learn your surroundings and get comfortable in taking different women to the same cool spots that work. This is so important to save time/money and help things run smoothly.

If it's out of your usual habitat - do some research. NO DINNER/MOVIE/COFFEE DATES. We are here to smash, it's drinks or a walk/pool if non alcoholic

 

[Bible_Belt]

The other reason that a woman does not want a dinner date is that the guy will often expect the girl to put out just because he spent money. Guys will whine about it, use guilt trips, beg....that's AFC game, and it is what women tend to expect.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You finished at about 76%, which is still strong. Rated pic PM-ed to you.


Here's the deal:

I did all the work for you. I told you to get a wardrobe consultant, professional photographer, and snap 100 pics. I even got your best pics tweaked up 20%+ in attractiveness.

Now the onus falls on you to get the legwork done. After I finish your third pic, you have exactly three weeks to get one date who will show up. If you can't, you're fired.

Now it's time to put your big boy pants on, hustle and figure the nuances out for yourself.

I don't think I'm going to make this 3 week thing. I'm back to getting zero matches per day.