Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Too Soon

rjames407

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Hey guys, for the last few years I have been in a relationship and seem to have forgotton all of the 'rules' and taken a very 'carefree' approach to dating and in hindsight have broken a few rules re timing and also the timing issue has been skewed by me sleeping with people on the first date.

Be grateful of people's thoughts, I think this is too fast but what are the general rules. So the story goes: Started chatting to girl online a couple of weeks ago, she then got back to me and we met on wednesday just gone and slept together. She then text me a couple of times on thursday and I called and we chatted. I then rang on Saturday afternoon and she text me sat evening (but not a text with any questions), I then rang again sunday (today afternoon) but nothing yet !

I think i need to tone it down, but wondering everyones thoughts


Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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You must not know how to keep an interesting conversation going. Stimulate her mind. Fvck her brain with your words

Or bad sex?

You didnt give a lot of information about the situation but girls dont just drop guys that are good fvcks and are interesting.
 
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