btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
This doesn’t apply to social circle game. This is strictly from what I’ve experienced with OLD and cold approaching.
If you’re too smooth, even if you’ve already had sex with a woman, there is a very high chance you’ll get flaked on at some point.
I guess my “comfort game” isn’t where it needs to be but this is definitely a true dynamic I’ve experienced more than several times.
How do you tone it down? The very act of being able to lay a woman you meet in line at the in n out, I think, is proof enough to her that you’re a player, even if you’re not. Even if you manage to keep a woman around like this for a while I don’t think you’re in good shape. She’s probably either insecure and thinking you’re spinning multiple plates, even if you’re not, which basically in her mind gives her the green light to do the same or she’s resenting you the entire time you’re with her because she hates how smooth you are. I really do not think women like this.
There’s a sweet spot, somewhere between too much beta and too much alpha that I haven’t found yet but I honestly think it comes down to compatibility. I mean at the end of the day a person either enjoys spending time with you or they don’t.
I don’t really have a point to this post other than I’d be curious to hear others experiences with this specific dynamic I’m speaking about.
If you’re too smooth, even if you’ve already had sex with a woman, there is a very high chance you’ll get flaked on at some point.
I guess my “comfort game” isn’t where it needs to be but this is definitely a true dynamic I’ve experienced more than several times.
How do you tone it down? The very act of being able to lay a woman you meet in line at the in n out, I think, is proof enough to her that you’re a player, even if you’re not. Even if you manage to keep a woman around like this for a while I don’t think you’re in good shape. She’s probably either insecure and thinking you’re spinning multiple plates, even if you’re not, which basically in her mind gives her the green light to do the same or she’s resenting you the entire time you’re with her because she hates how smooth you are. I really do not think women like this.
There’s a sweet spot, somewhere between too much beta and too much alpha that I haven’t found yet but I honestly think it comes down to compatibility. I mean at the end of the day a person either enjoys spending time with you or they don’t.
I don’t really have a point to this post other than I’d be curious to hear others experiences with this specific dynamic I’m speaking about.