Okay, so in my last RETARTED thread lol I was tlaking to you guys abou thow this girl may come and hang with me tommorwo ngiht. Well I'm pretty positive she is coming...anyways my friend and i have to go pick up her and her friends...now this girl is from a diffrent school. what in the world should i talk about with her? i'm usually good at talking with girls but i'm just nervous about this one cause ive never dealt with a girl out of my school before.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tommorow Night
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
if you need to ask that question, you dont need to be here
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Read the DJ BIBLE...........It has tips on conversation and everyt;hing u need to know.
