"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tom cruise's character in "Magnolia"

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is not a role model.
please punch yourself in the face if you think otherwise, k?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Because he is revealed to be secretly a p*ssy in denial.
 

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He does say one very important thing:

You Must Respect The C0ck!!!!



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I find the parallels between that character and the likes of Mystery to be rather uncanny, especially since Mystery is meant to be mentally unstable.
 

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His superficial character is interesting and parallels some DJs in this very forum. Like that loser from UK who went by the name of "Shezzler" , he was certainly a fruitcake.
 
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OH yes, Magnolia, I remember that movie. It was at a time I was buying into Payton Kane's Seduce and Conquer CD's and it reminded me of that set-up, except this one was Seduce and Destroy or something like that.

Payton Kane also has seminars like that in the city where he teaches guys to seduce and do it with women on http://www.seduceandconquer.com - all I know is bad luck followed me when I buy his products so I stopped buying them for now.

Tom Cruse vs Payton Kane, that would be something.
 
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