KnightRyder
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TO THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE EXPERTS IN EYE CONTACTS MEANINGS ....PLEASE HELP ME COMPLETE THIS THREAD Q@!@!!!
There is a lot of information you can just gain by the first look with a women .
Suppose you are a DJ and you go about and you go out ....
there are different responses that a women will give you ..
first thing he would do is look her in the eye to "GAUGE" what her reaction to him initially is and there are FOUR and only FOUR options with which she will return your eye contact with her.
I was noticing women's reactions when they look at different guys as they come into my favorite Bookstore.
1. she will make eye contact and look away at the floor or book or something .
- 90 % of the time if she breaks eye contact SHE IS not interested. but there are a few minority of shy girls ( about 4.589% ) that will break and make eye contact again . ..Approach her and if she makes eye contact again then she might be shy otherwise she's just NOT INTERESTED.
2. She will make eye contact and keep eye contact just as long as you are looking at her . WHAT THE HELL DOES THIS MEAN ??!! ( I am guessing perhaps she won't bite , you have have her attention ...I have no idea what the hell that means HELP!! )
3. There is the third variety in which she will make the eye contact first .....and just STARE blantantly at you , just a WIDE OPEN stare at you no smile , , eyes are wide open and eye brows are raised and she looks half scared and half surprised and she just stares at you . I notice women's reactions when they look at different guys as they come into my favorite Bookstore.
4. THere is the fourth variety in which this one can be part 3 or part 2 , such that she will initiate eye contact or hold your eye contact that you initiated, but she will also show that she's attracted to you in some what , her eyes dilate or smile a little. This means she's attracted to you. Any other signals ????
( notice that this is a non-eye contact)
5( VERY dubious) ( your help needed ) ....I notice that sometimes when a guy looks at a women and she won't make eye contact at all , but she blinks her eyes remains frozen and continues looking in her current direction but she seems to acknowledge the atttempt to look at her and it looks like someone just hit her with an electric shock..but also notice sometimes if the guy give her some space and approaches her again, it seems she has acknowledged and noticed the guy looking at her ( I have NO FKING clue that that means...does this mean that she's interested but doesn't want to make it apparent ??? )
6. THis part you can't say much suppose that she hasn't made eye contact with you or it wasn't 5# above then you can't really say something about her reaction so you have to go there and make an attempt to get her eye contact. She might just give you a 1# but you don't know that with out her eye contact explicitly or a 5#( things in the works - non-eye-contact-type)
If you have read up to here, then ....for sure you should avoid contact with the 1#''s for you aren't going to get much from them I am assuming otherwise your DJs can prove me wrong. The second one are luke warm in their interest, .....you never know what might happen because you might go up to her thinking she's giving you interested she hears your stupid pick up lines and closes eye contact and moves her body against you . ..that probably means she's no longer interested.
DEAR experts and / or DJs , ...please feel free to fill me in on points I am missing here or the points above that you feel that require some elaboratation or perhaps...
I would love to hear your own experience with body language on initial encounters and you can reach me at vindamar@aol.com if need be...I look forward to hear your responses.
There is a lot of information you can just gain by the first look with a women .
Suppose you are a DJ and you go about and you go out ....
there are different responses that a women will give you ..
first thing he would do is look her in the eye to "GAUGE" what her reaction to him initially is and there are FOUR and only FOUR options with which she will return your eye contact with her.
I was noticing women's reactions when they look at different guys as they come into my favorite Bookstore.
1. she will make eye contact and look away at the floor or book or something .
- 90 % of the time if she breaks eye contact SHE IS not interested. but there are a few minority of shy girls ( about 4.589% ) that will break and make eye contact again . ..Approach her and if she makes eye contact again then she might be shy otherwise she's just NOT INTERESTED.
2. She will make eye contact and keep eye contact just as long as you are looking at her . WHAT THE HELL DOES THIS MEAN ??!! ( I am guessing perhaps she won't bite , you have have her attention ...I have no idea what the hell that means HELP!! )
3. There is the third variety in which she will make the eye contact first .....and just STARE blantantly at you , just a WIDE OPEN stare at you no smile , , eyes are wide open and eye brows are raised and she looks half scared and half surprised and she just stares at you . I notice women's reactions when they look at different guys as they come into my favorite Bookstore.
4. THere is the fourth variety in which this one can be part 3 or part 2 , such that she will initiate eye contact or hold your eye contact that you initiated, but she will also show that she's attracted to you in some what , her eyes dilate or smile a little. This means she's attracted to you. Any other signals ????
( notice that this is a non-eye contact)
5( VERY dubious) ( your help needed ) ....I notice that sometimes when a guy looks at a women and she won't make eye contact at all , but she blinks her eyes remains frozen and continues looking in her current direction but she seems to acknowledge the atttempt to look at her and it looks like someone just hit her with an electric shock..but also notice sometimes if the guy give her some space and approaches her again, it seems she has acknowledged and noticed the guy looking at her ( I have NO FKING clue that that means...does this mean that she's interested but doesn't want to make it apparent ??? )
6. THis part you can't say much suppose that she hasn't made eye contact with you or it wasn't 5# above then you can't really say something about her reaction so you have to go there and make an attempt to get her eye contact. She might just give you a 1# but you don't know that with out her eye contact explicitly or a 5#( things in the works - non-eye-contact-type)
If you have read up to here, then ....for sure you should avoid contact with the 1#''s for you aren't going to get much from them I am assuming otherwise your DJs can prove me wrong. The second one are luke warm in their interest, .....you never know what might happen because you might go up to her thinking she's giving you interested she hears your stupid pick up lines and closes eye contact and moves her body against you . ..that probably means she's no longer interested.
DEAR experts and / or DJs , ...please feel free to fill me in on points I am missing here or the points above that you feel that require some elaboratation or perhaps...
I would love to hear your own experience with body language on initial encounters and you can reach me at vindamar@aol.com if need be...I look forward to hear your responses.
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