Hey fellas, I've been put in a dilemma of actually pursuing a chick taht I've liked and of course she liked back, but for some reason (which i'm not going to try to ***** about) She put me in an extremely awkward situation and gave out bad vibes the whole night. After that I gave her the silent treatment. A couple of days of this, I find that out that she does like me because she just doesn't seem to be able to take her eyes off of me and wants to talk to me. I really like this chick and I do want to persue her, HOWEVER, I hate the flaky attitude of hers and just the disappointment she puts me through. You guys have any ideas whether to end it or persue it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To take her back or NO?
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