"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never Take Advice From People, You Should Know What You Want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok nobody is perfect if everybody knew what they wanted all the time there would be no such thing as conflict. How would anybody learn from their mistakes. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it. Attitude is the most important thing. IT matters more then all the material things we think we want.
 

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Ok then how do we know whether YOUR advice is good or whether YOU have actually gotten laid and are qualified to give advice?

**** here is either taken or not taken.I mean you can listen to whoever you want.

If someones advice is bad,WHY NOT POST YOUR BETTER ADVICE IN THAT THREAD AND TELL THE USER WHY THEIR ADVICE WAS SO POOR?Why not analyze it out if their advice was so poor?

You are an idiot plain and simple.
 

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You guys seriously need some heavy therapy...I just said not to take advice from anyone... and you guys ask me to post a better advice! The idiocracy in this forum... haha
 

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Shyyhs said:
I think he's right. Everyone gets so defensive, as if their ego is attached to the forum. Basically what he's saying is there are a ton of people here that don't pick up chicks that give advice. His post clearly states to find the experts that actually have the experience.
Dude don't you know? Everyone on here is a Senior Don Juan who is God's gift to women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude you got it all backwards. WOMEN ARE GOD'S GIFT TO MEN.
 

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I smell a touch of hypocrisy... "you got it all backwards, women are god's gift to men"? Sounds like Pook...

Aren't you just being what you're decrying there my friend? We all do it ;) Whatever we think is so wrong in other people, it's usually because we dislike it in ourselves. I'm doing it now :D
 

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A lot of people won't take any advice to heart, good or bad. It's being stuborn and hard headed.

The best way to learn is to go out there and get kicked in the teeth by some b*tch(es) hard enough (and often several times) and wake the f*ck up.

If you can't make it you die. It's called baptism by fire and if it's good enough for the militaries of the world, it's d*amnned sure good enough to motivate a guy to pick up an live with women.
 

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Gubby said:
I smell a touch of hypocrisy... "you got it all backwards, women are god's gift to men"? Sounds like Pook...

Aren't you just being what you're decrying there my friend? We all do it ;) Whatever we think is so wrong in other people, it's usually because we dislike it in ourselves. I'm doing it now :D

And pook got that from the classic!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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