"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, women will not contact you if their interested all the time, especially if they gave you the cold shoulder at one point.

Where are you getting your information from? This forum in general seems to give ass backwards advice.

P.S. Who cares if a girl is in a relationship.. was she not cool? Do you only talk to women who you can possibly sleep with? Thats pretty weak.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the305 said:
No, women will not contact you if their interested all the time, especially if they gave you the cold shoulder at one point.

Where are you getting your information from? This forum in general seems to give ass backwards advice.

P.S. Who cares if a girl is in a relationship.. was she not cool? Do you only talk to women who you can possibly sleep with? Thats pretty weak.
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Don't know if you had a chance to read my thread connected to my last post? I figured it was best to move on with that situation and being a plane ride away. Even though I go down there alot.
 
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Yeah, in that situation you gotta act responsible and do the right thing, its not going to work out, so just accept it.

good stuff, but wow did people give you some horrible ass advice, this site, in general sucks. lol
 
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Yeah, in that situation you gotta act responsible and do the right thing, its not going to work out, so just accept it.

good stuff, but wow did people give you some horrible ass advice, this site, in general sucks. lol
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Horrible advice? I'm not sure who you're talking about. To me the advice I was given on the situation I presented seemed pretty sound.
 
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