To date a younger girl or not to?

[Freeman]

Hey gents whats up-this ya boy freeman-back from a long absence-Im glad to see the site is going on strong-Today I have sort of a question to ask from you guys-How do you feel about dating a girl who is younger than you? Better yet, say that you are 24 yrs old-been through the whole college scene for the most part and you may be talking to this girl who is a freshman. Now obviously the first and foremost concern is her maturity-

So today I wanted to get you guys opinion on it. Would you date a girl who is considerably younger than you? Why or why not?

 

[crazymedstudent]

I dated a girl when I was post college and she was a junior in college. I just think now that the mentally is totally different after college then when you are in college.

People are in college for the experience of it. Meeting new people, getting sh1tfaced, hooking up with people and whatnot. If you really want a LTR with this girl then its going to be near impossible to have her strapped down for all four years especially when she has so many options in college.

If you are just trying to have fun then I'd say go for it because all college girls are looking for new experiences and whatnot.

Cheers

 

[Kal0051]

Well, I'm 24 and for the most part I'm only interested in girls that are 19-22. Some of my friends have tried to set me up with 17-18 year old girls in the past year or so but for whatever reason I wasn't interested until they turned 19. I don't really understand it. Don't know if this answers your question but whatever.

 

[ucmedv8]

Most of the girls I date are younger than me. Not sure why, but it could be that I look younger than I actually am. I'm 26 and currently dating a 21 year old. The best relationship I have ever been in started when I was a senior in college with a freshman at the same university. Turned into a 2 and a half year relationship, with many priceless experiences.

Since you have that age difference, and likely experience difference, she will likely put you on a pedastal. Whatever you do, try and maintain this advantage.

You're right to be concerned about her maturity. The chick I had the LTR with ended up being more mature than most people her age, which is great for conversation. The 21 year old I'm currently dating is a bit immature, so I have to keep conversation light. But, perhaps with time and trust she will turn out to feel more comfortable with more mature discussion.

 

[Dannyrt34]

I'll never date a girl under 21 (I'm 22). I've had bad experiences with girls in the 18-20 range. Plus, lots more fun dates to go on if you're boyh 21.

 

[AAAgent]

he 21 year old I'm currently dating is a bit immature, so I have to keep conversation light. But, perhaps with time and trust she will turn out to feel more comfortable with more mature discussion.

i never thought about it that way. i would automatically next a girl if she sounded like she was still in highschool and possessed that immaturity level. So many fine girls were lost. Maybe i should start out light and on their level as well and see if they have anything in there.