To call her or not...

[d2j]

Hey this is my first post,
Ive been reading and applying all this stuff for about 4 months now and its great to feel so confident about the whole thing

I came to a little problem though...

im away at the moment at my aunties and my cuson took me out clubbing with her shy friend. I did what i do to create the attraction and we was kissing in no time...even had a little dance which i dont normally do

We was basically all over eachother all night

I got her number and she took mine and i told her to contact me. She said "Yeah i will" but we was both drunk. I like the girl and want to get with her before i go back home in about a week.

My cuson hasnt spoke to her yet....should i contact her first? and if i do when should i?.. i can't leave it too late

I don't want to seem like im chasing her but she seemed quite shy when she was sober.. maybe she hasnt got the guts 2 just pick up the phone

or should i wait and if she doesnt contact me ... forget it?

what would you do?

p.s im 18 and shes 22 if that changes anything..shouldn't do though if the attraction is there

Thanks alot !
Dave

 

[sexy_kuta]

wait about 3-4 days after u met her.. if it has been that long call her

if she doesnt pick up... wait 2 day.. at least it will leave her with a miss call.. so call the next 2 days and leave a message... then lay back..

if she doesnt call back then next her

IF she picks up play a lil game.. shes gonna ask who this is.. tell her to guess and jus play around dont sound too creepy though... laugh when she says a name

if she doesnt remember u.. tell her u got the wrong number and hang up and next her right away

if she remembers u then talk and plan something with her.. take her out or something.. something light like bowling or pool hall but make sure its something U want.. its a test if shes willing to go along


EDIT: PS: wtf u talkin about reading this shhit for last 4 months when u just signed up this month

i dont like bullshiiters man

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Why would you put her in charge?? When you first meet a girl, YOU should be the one contacting her!! Now, your left looking retarded either way. If you don't contact her because you told her to, you might lose the chance to bang this girl. On the other hand if you contact her, then you might run the chance of looking weak or too eager, since you told her to call you.

My vote is to bite the bullet and call her. If she mentions anything about you telling her to call you, just say you were really wasted and don't remember.

In the future learn from this mistake, because no matter how well you are doing, your just at the beginning of a long journey.



PIMP

 

[d2j]

cheers guys good advice there

I wont be making the mistake of telling a women to call me again lol

what a dumb thing to do i completly handed control to her

oh well..hopefully she wont remember when i call her


p.s the guy who called me a bull****er....i signed up for this forum about 10 minitues ago and everything ive learned so far has been pure david deangelo...so dont call me that .. cheers

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

cheers guys good advice there

I wont be making the mistake of telling a women to call me again lol

what a dumb thing to do i completly handed control to her

Good lesson learned.