To be or not to be...in a relationship

[Deicide]

Hey. This past week I met a young cute woman through friends whom I made out with on our first meeting. And just last night on our 2nd date I plowed through her resistance by fingering her and ended up having sex with her three times until the early morning. It was great and I'm still wore out from it. I think this woman loves me and is very attracted to me. She texts me everyday and despite some early problems, things are going well with her. The worst things with her are her insecurities(didn't want to see me when she had a physical problem, needs blanket during sex) and her relationship questions(So, what are we now?). I'd like to keep seeing her and make her my girlfriend. But, I still got that desire to bang other women and keep on sarging. So, I'm torn. I'm going to get regular sex for the first time in my life if I keep seeing her, but I want other women in my life also. I can't see myself getting married or any of that stuff, I just want an enjoyable life, and I have a couple other women I may be interested in dating also. I just fear that if I start dating these other women, she'll find out, and I'll have no women. I've never been in a relationship also, so I'm very inexperienced also.
I'm not sure what to do, maybe I should tell her about my ideas and concerns. I'm holding out on the serious comitted relationship with her for the time being, but she's becoming more and more like my girlfriend.

 

[bigneil]

"Where are we now"?? In the first week?

She obviously likes you, but sounds a bit desperate. Don't text her every day. Keep her at arms length until you know her better.

You could use the practice anyway in relationships, but don't tell her it's your first one.

 

[backseatjuan]

I met my current gf by driving up to her in the opposite lane, at night. She's living with me ever since.

To be...

...Because it's healthy,.

 

[Deicide]

"Where are we now"?? In the first week?

She obviously likes you, but sounds a bit desperate. Don't text her every day. Keep her at arms length until you know her better.

You could use the practice anyway in relationships, but don't tell her it's your first one.

Yes, she said that in the first week. I'm not meeting her but like once a week, so I might as well just try to date other girls also. But, I think having 2 girlfriends would be too much. Adding on another girl or two to see once a week wouldn't be bad at all though.