"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To be a bad ass mother****a or a gay-tard???

Aiken_Drum

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OK, now that I got your attention, I have a dilemma.
We always been told by countless """gurus""" that we should smile when approaching... but David D. says to smile rarely, like James Bond.

I actually feel J.B. looks way cooler than, say, Tom Cruise with his million dollar smile :D

Both look COOL, but it's a different cool.

What do you think? Fake a smile just to look cool or not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Adone

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Actually, James Bond is a pretty smiling guy. Now, I haven't seen Craig's Bond yet, but Sean Connery and, even more, Pierce Brosnan would always smile when approaching a girl. Saying "smile when approaching" is totally different than "always have a million dollar smile on your face like you are an unconfident chump".

Out of topic, anyway: wanna be a Don Juan? Smile when you feel like it and don't smile when there is no need to do it, period.
 

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Did you follow the D6-A1 combo when approaching?

Or are you still using the C3-4D? That obsolete crap.



Oh yeah, and for your info. David DeAngelo is his pen name. That's what he publishes under. He's actually called Eben Pagan. (For marketing reasons.)

http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4466&page=1&pp=15

&: www.coachville.com/fullpractice/x27pdf.pdf

Here's a great example of this in action. It's a site called doubleyourdating.com owned by my colleague Eben Pagan. (Yes, that's his real name.
I just threw you a bone. Hope you use this snippet an d find out what a sham (but genius businessman) this fellow really is. Ic an only hope you can think for yourself and make your own decisions rather than be as gullible to follow the David D. Religious movement over here at SoSuave. :D
 

THE_ADDMAN

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Aiken_Drum said:
What do you think? Fake a smile just to look cool or not?
That is not a Don Juan thing to do or say. let that be stricken from the record

heres a thought, smile when you have reason to :)

you are meeting someone new, so you should be happy!

only smile when they say something or do something that makes u smile.
 

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Merest hint of a smile works best.

You ever see the pics of male sex-symbols that women/girls put on their wall? How many of them were smiling broadly? Probably none. And how many had the object of their attraction looking mean & moody?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A genuine smile can be a sexual signal in the right context.
 
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