"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To all who reveal their identity here, what the f*ck are you thinking??? LOL

edger

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No flame intended here, but why do some of you guys link your pics and websites here? What are you thinking? God forbid some hot woman you're dating happens to stumble across SoSuave one day, see's it, and reads all your posts. The one thing that'll be running through her mind is, "ok, I'm dating a guy I'm really interested in who seems to need help with women". That's one of the worst ways to come off AFC. It's unlikely that a chick you know will stumble upon this site, but it can happen. And also another thing, what if a chick regularly comes here from your area that WOULD normally be into you if she met you, and then one day you see her, but now she's not into you because she knows you in her mind as "that guy who needs help with women" from SoSuave. Once again though, it's unlikely that'll happen, but I'd think you guys would wanna err on the safe side and always remain anonymous, especialy on a board like this. And I'm sure more chicks know of this site than you think.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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My girl knows about this site. Granted, I don't think she's ever been here but I told her I visit it.

I don't think it's a big deal. There are tips on fitness & health, style and grooming, general self improvement , and other good stuff.

About the same thing you'd see in every girl magazine.
 

Nighthawk

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I've linked to my site a couple of times, but my gf already knows about it.

My posts are generally advice that I stand by in real life and I don't give away too much about my life.

If my posts were 'help my cock won't work' I'd be less likely to sacrifice my anonymity.
 
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Men don't care what women think about them - she can be replaced!!!
 

Bonhomme

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My general rule about the internet is not to post anything associated with my real identity that I would not want on a big billboard downtown in a major city.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lookyoung

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edger said:
No flame intended here, but why do some of you guys link your pics and websites here? What are you thinking? God forbid some hot woman you're dating happens to stumble across SoSuave one day, see's it, and reads all your posts. The one thing that'll be running through her mind is, "ok, I'm dating a guy I'm really interested in who seems to need help with women". That's one of the worst ways to come off AFC. It's unlikely that a chick you know will stumble upon this site, but it can happen. And also another thing, what if a chick regularly comes here from your area that WOULD normally be into you if she met you, and then one day you see her, but now she's not into you because she knows you in her mind as "that guy who needs help with women" from SoSuave. Once again though, it's unlikely that'll happen, but I'd think you guys would wanna err on the safe side and always remain anonymous, especialy on a board like this. And I'm sure more chicks know of this site than you think.

Man that sh1t has gone through my head a few times. I never posted my pic, but I have posted so many real life situations. I am the same type on sosuave as I am in reallife and it would be very easy for a girl who knows me to put the puzzle together if she ever ran into this site and read my posts.




Fvck man I gotta be careful.
 

Don Waldo

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I reveal my identity all the time, but people always come up with the same question!!


Where's Waldo???


So i guess i'm safe!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I wonder about anyone who has immortalized themselves on MySpace moreso than this site. Not only do women Google the guys they are seeing, Human Resource departments are doing it too. People don't realize that what they post about themselves are available to the entire world and that information could literally effect their livelihood.
 

Serialized3

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Sh!t, I better quit revealing so much about myself here, someone may find out that I am, in fact, Batman. :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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