"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
To all the short guys on here...
- Thread starter ChrizZ
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ready123
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fvck that
nightcrawler
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yeah because knowing that you're faking being tall is really going to help your game.
Get real and stop insulting short people please.
Get real and stop insulting short people please.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
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I actually had a pair of lifted shoes for about two days. They looked funky and felt really bad while walking.
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If you really want to help then stop posting. You are not contributing anything useful.ChrizZ said:
Wtf do you see yourself as anyways? God's gift to AFCs everywhere? please GTFO all you're doing is irritating us and making yourself look like a tard.
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The jesus? please. I bet people **** with you on a daily basis because you look and act like a clown. Just like I am ****ing with you now.ChrizZ said:
Little man,muhuwahaha said:
Once you get to my age you will understand.
I'm not gonna reply to you anymore....
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That's because height doesnt matter unless you are really short (<5'5") or super tall (>6'8)
I was hoping to give guys like wutangfacial a little confidence so that they can finally stop the b!tching because they get the ability to make themselves a couple of inches taller.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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ChrizZ said:
You need to step out of your shell and look at the world in the perspective of others. Only then will you even begin to grasp the magnitude of their situations. Do you really think that faking something will raise your self confidence?
It's so ironic too that you're a 6'3" white guy trying to preach to "shorty's" and people of color that height and race doesn't matter.
Get real
Maxtro
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Actually I don't get what wutangfinancial's problem is. He's 5'8 and he thinks that's short. I have the good fortune of being a white guy who's 5'6ChrizZ said:
It just goes to show that no matter how bad people think they have something, somebody else has it even worse.
One of the worlds biggest bada$$es, "50 cent" was 5'2" and like 120 pds.
He got b!tches left and right. 6'5" guys were afraid to even look him in the eyes.
Why?
BECAUSE HE WAS A FVCKING BADA$$ AND HE HAD POWER!!!
I hope one day you short guys realize that it's all about power and not about height or race...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=SBUu3OlyMWM
He got b!tches left and right. 6'5" guys were afraid to even look him in the eyes.
Why?
BECAUSE HE WAS A FVCKING BADA$$ AND HE HAD POWER!!!
I hope one day you short guys realize that it's all about power and not about height or race...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=SBUu3OlyMWM
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Uh, you're wrong about 50 cent. He's 6 feet proof
Even if he was 5'2 it doesn't matter because fame is the great equalizer. Heck, Vern Troyer can probably get girls. Yes getting famous and having power can help you get girls. But it's not a very helpful answer. It's like telling somebody who is poor to go buy a lotto ticket.
Even if he was 5'2 it doesn't matter because fame is the great equalizer. Heck, Vern Troyer can probably get girls. Yes getting famous and having power can help you get girls. But it's not a very helpful answer. It's like telling somebody who is poor to go buy a lotto ticket.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Maxtro
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LOL how many 50 cents are there? Wikipedia says his name is Curtis James Jackson III. The youtube thing says his name is Kelvin Martin.
Ah I got it now, Kelvin Martin is the original 50 cent and the inspiration for the rapper.
Still my point that you ignored is still valid. Power and a sense of danger is something that women find attractive, but it's not very helpful to tell somebody who is having trouble with girls to become "powerful."
Ah I got it now, Kelvin Martin is the original 50 cent and the inspiration for the rapper.
Still my point that you ignored is still valid. Power and a sense of danger is something that women find attractive, but it's not very helpful to tell somebody who is having trouble with girls to become "powerful."