"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tired of games I just want to get laid, is it possible in this type of situation?

fruitopiax

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Ok something happened to me earlier today. I was working out in the gym (im a uni student )and I could tell this girl who I'd say was a hb7 average-nice face, big tits, nice ass, was with her friend and I could tell at one point they were talking about me cause the girl was sitting down and as I passed from a distance the friend turned to look at me. A while later I'm sitting down at a machine and the girl sorta walks close to me and we make EC, it almost looked like she was going to sit next to me on another machine, but she didn't. Then a couple mins later she sat at machine directly across from (the side of her body was facing me) and she would turn her head and look at me every now and then. obviously she wanted me to approach, im not that dumb lol. but i didnt approach, because honestly what would come of it? sure id talk to her, but could I actually get her # then in that gym? and if i didnt theres a good chance i wouldnt see her again for awhile if ever, as alot of times a girl will come to the gym and ill never see em again.

what im basically wondering is it possible to get quick lays from meets like that in college situation. i live on rez and im wondering would it have been possible to get a same day lay or something from that? any thoughts? how would you have handled that if you wanted sex asap.

also if i do see her again/gym or otherwise should i approach her or did i mess this one up?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Guys pretty much only get one chance when something like that happens, I guarantee the next time you see this girl (if ever again) she will not be interested. When situations like this arise, always approach. It doesn't matter if you're nervous, or don't know what to do/say. And if you make a mistake, big fu<k, that's the only way you'll learn.
 

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fruitopiax said:
what im basically wondering is it possible to get quick lays from meets like that in college situation.

Sure, if you are 6'2 and built like a linebacker

how would you have handled that if you wanted sex asap.

You are making the assumption she wanted sex ASAP too.

also if i do see her again/gym or otherwise should i approach her or did i mess this one up?

How about "Hi, how are you?"
At least you should have got a name
 

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fruitopiax said:
Ok something happened to me earlier today. I was working out in the gym (im a uni student )and I could tell this girl who I'd say was a hb7 average-nice face, big tits, nice ass, was with her friend and I could tell at one point they were talking about me cause the girl was sitting down and as I passed from a distance the friend turned to look at me. A while later I'm sitting down at a machine and the girl sorta walks close to me and we make EC, it almost looked like she was going to sit next to me on another machine, but she didn't. Then a couple mins later she sat at machine directly across from (the side of her body was facing me) and she would turn her head and look at me every now and then. obviously she wanted me to approach, im not that dumb lol. but i didnt approach, because honestly what would come of it? sure id talk to her, but could I actually get her # then in that gym? and if i didnt theres a good chance i wouldnt see her again for awhile if ever, as alot of times a girl will come to the gym and ill never see em again.

what im basically wondering is it possible to get quick lays from meets like that in college situation. i live on rez and im wondering would it have been possible to get a same day lay or something from that? any thoughts? how would you have handled that if you wanted sex asap.

also if i do see her again/gym or otherwise should i approach her or did i mess this one up?

Dude your wasting alot of time worrying about the outcome before even trying. Your goin to get nowhere if you think about it all of the time. If you act you have no time to think about it. Who knows what will happen? You should go and find out.

Oh and if you want to get laid fast you need to approach her than take her out atleast once and if she's into you there you go. But you need to approach first.
 
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