Just broke up with my girlfriends of 11 months last week and my mind is tired from all the drama we've had. We started as friends 4 years ago and she presued me non-stop then finally I decided ok this might be worth a shot. It was long distance for 7 months and then she moved to my city in Aug. I truly thought she could be the one. In those 4 months, I tried to do everything possible for her and show her a goodtime but nothing was good enough. If I was late an hour or so she wanted to break up. If I went out with my friends and didn't call her she thought we weren't good together. If I yelled at her because I was angry she said we should be through. If I was any sort of a challenge she'd go ape ****. I tried to blow it off and stay cool, I tried to get angry, I tried to be nice to her.. nothing worked. Always she seemed fine the next day. The week after, Thanksgiving we were both driving each other crazy. I was sick of doing everything for here and always going over there because she never came over because she didn't like my roomate. It took such a toll on me and effected our relationship with the way I acted. So we decided to end it there and still be friends. She then decides she misses me and wants to get back together with me right before she leaves for a 2 week long break to her home town. I was supposed to go there and spend 8 days and NYE there starting the weekend after XMAS.
The second night she is home she calls me drunk crying at 2 am saying she hates it in my city and the only reason why she moved here is because of me. She said she is close to her family and wants to live here although her best friend lives in my city. She wanted me to move there because I'm not that close with my family. I told her I lived there (her city) and don't like it because all my friends are here. We talk for 2 more nights and she thinks we should end it and me not come down. She said she'd call me in a few weeks when she gets back. So I agreed but then said I'm pissed of doing everything for you and that if that is the way you want it fine. No more hanging out, no more going to dinner, and please don't call me when you get back to town and you are lonely in your apartment because I'm not driving out there to entertain you. Haven't heard from her since... not even a call on NYE, which I expected.
You think I did the right think here? Both her parents and her friends tell here she's losing out... This girl has baggage.. She has been engaged before and it didn't work out. But she is so stubborn and thick headed I really couldn't take it anymore and had to give an ultimatium. What y'all think?
The second night she is home she calls me drunk crying at 2 am saying she hates it in my city and the only reason why she moved here is because of me. She said she is close to her family and wants to live here although her best friend lives in my city. She wanted me to move there because I'm not that close with my family. I told her I lived there (her city) and don't like it because all my friends are here. We talk for 2 more nights and she thinks we should end it and me not come down. She said she'd call me in a few weeks when she gets back. So I agreed but then said I'm pissed of doing everything for you and that if that is the way you want it fine. No more hanging out, no more going to dinner, and please don't call me when you get back to town and you are lonely in your apartment because I'm not driving out there to entertain you. Haven't heard from her since... not even a call on NYE, which I expected.
You think I did the right think here? Both her parents and her friends tell here she's losing out... This girl has baggage.. She has been engaged before and it didn't work out. But she is so stubborn and thick headed I really couldn't take it anymore and had to give an ultimatium. What y'all think?