"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A while ago somebody posted a thread called 'HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS SITE AS YOU CAN', that takes you straight to the tips page organised by five-star posts. Although the star system is controversial, I think it would be a good idea to have that link as a sticky, or at least as a footnote to the bible.

Also: Why not have a closed thread sticky that features all the bootcamp links, constantly updated. Bootcamp hardly deserves it's own forum, but it would be good if people could see all the bootcamps.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by faustus
A while ago somebody posted a thread called 'HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS SITE AS YOU CAN', that takes you straight to the tips page organised by five-star posts. Although the star system is controversial, I think it would be a good idea to have that link as a sticky, or at least as a footnote to the bible.
If it gets bumped enough with requests for a sticky, I'm sure my compadres and I would be more than happy to oblige.
 
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