"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tips on Phone Call

dustmuffin

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I am being set up by a friend with a 52 year old woman. I chatted her up on Facebook and she gave me her number. She wants to text and a call this evening. No date this week because she is going out of town on business till Sunday.

She is an engineer/Attorney and very analytical. Plus a partner in a very important law firm. I am a creative type. Any tips on how to deal with her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zonn

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How old are you? If you are less then 45 you are one thirsty son.
 
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