Tips On One Night Stands/Going Solo To A Club

[Father Joseph]

I thought it would be a good idea to make a thread on this particular subject for all who are into going out solo trying to get laid.




1. What kind of approaches work?



2. How to isolate women from a group? 

3.

Should I get their number and say I have a after party and text when you are about to go home? 

4.

Or just ask them to come with you to your place?(And if she declines how to ask their number smoothly? If you want to get back to her sometime)


 5.If you want to go to their place how can you make it happen? 





I would appreciate if these questions were answered and other advice is welcome of course. May god bless you all.

 

[skinnyguy]

There was some post about how you should make friends with a dude who has bottle service so you can penetrate that social circle and eventually get girls to join your table. I can't find it though.

 

[bigneil]

1. What kind of approaches work?


Sit at the bar. Dress sharp. Look good. Have a budget. Avoid junk food in lieu of tipping more. Be interesting. Talk to everyone. Oh and lose the preacher outfit.



2. How to isolate women from a group? 


You can't. They will approach you and you need to overcome the group. The group is always your enemy. Everyone in the room will try to mess things up for you. As Seinfeld said, "It's God's way. He doesn't really want any of us getting together".

3.Should I get their number and say I have a after party and text when you are about to go home? 


No. You should get their number, make plans in advance, text them and take them out. If you can handle it, have an after hours party but you invite the whole bar back, not your favorite bartender only.

4. Or just ask them to come with you to your place?(And if she declines how to ask their number smoothly? If you want to get back to her sometime)

Even hookers don't come back that easily.



5. If you want to go to their place how can you make it happen? 


She will invite you. Much later.

 

[apprenticedj]

1. What kind of approaches work?


All approaches work, it's more about finding out which specific approach style works for you. I'm with Neil here, I just try to look nice and smile. When a cutie smiles back that's a small invitation to come over and introduce yourself. THAT is where the game really starts.



2. How to isolate women from a group? 


Tough one depending on the group. First you're going to need to enter the group slightly, befriend everybody and show you're not a creeper. Then work on chatting up your target while still with the group, after some conversation you can usually pull her aside much easier. Just remember girls in packs are VERY protective over their friends so tread lightly.

3.

Should I get their number and say I have a after party and text when you are about to go home? 


Just get the number, as Neil said if you're having a legit after party you should be inviting a handful of people including your target.

4.

Or just ask them to come with you to your place?(And if she declines how to ask their number smoothly? If you want to get back to her sometime)




Depends how tight your game is and how attractive she finds you. If you're looking good and she's already giving you tons of love it may work just fine. If she has anything less than high interest it's probably not going to happen.

5. If you want to go to their place how can you make it happen? 


See above, interest level is everything. If she's feeling you I would wager she'll follow you down a dark alley but if she's not, good luck.

 

[TheGambino]

Skinny, you pay with me for the bottles in Holland or in Morocco, hell I dont care where and lmao I'll get every girl you want to join us, sit on our laps, make out and have fun without spending 1 penny on her only on the bottle.

Once you have a table with a bottle its so easy.

You approach with confidence, tease her and her friend a bit, build some rapport, invite her and lead her to your table, you get drunk, dance, have fun and tell her 'lets get out of here'

I f8cked so many girls after clubbing

I just prefer getting drinks from the bar and walking around, dancing and approaching since Im a student, I dont blow €50-250 on a bottle every weekend thats ridiculous. I do that on vacation in Marrakech but when I'm home I do it twice- three times a year max or sometimes split it with my friends.

But girls wanna have fun man, if they see youre a outgoing fun guy, that teases them and gives them a good time that night, they will join your table and drink with you.

 

[TheGambino]

Question 1 & 2:
Make eyecontact and laugh to her first. When she laughs back or stares at you for longer then 2-3 seconds you approach. (If she laughs back it basically means: 'You can approach me') Back straight and a smile on your face. Say something positive. 'Hey cutie what's your name' Or comment her clothes, her style or the way she dances

Then you tease her a bit, kino to check her interest level and get very close to her, talk in her ears softly, dont yell. When your finishing talking, sniff her neck for like 5 to 8 seconds and lay back with a smile on your face. Most likeley she will ask you how she smells or why you did that. You answer you smell great what parfume? I even told some girls her smell turned me up lmao. Just sniff and compliment her.
You could go for the kiss close too at that point, once you build some rapport, received IOIs, danced for example you could sniff and kiss her cheek and go for the kiss on the lips after you kissed her cheek.

If she stinks you know whatsup directly so a win-win lol

You can check directly for IOI's, if you feel she likes you grabb her hand and move her away from the group. If you smoke ask her to join you for a cigarette for example. Talk about fun things, tease her, show her your in the romantic mood. Dont bore her with work related questions, be a Don Juan.

If you can dance lead her to the dance floor and escalate to making out at that point.

(I love taking risks personally, I touch her, make moves asap to test her interest level, if she refuses, declines or gives me headaches Ill just cut her loose and search for another girl in the club)

3 & 4.

Should I get their number and say I have a after party and text when you are about to go home? 

You could, but you should escalate at that point like I said above. The more you escalate, the more she invests the more likeley she will like you, be comfortable with you and go home with you. If you talk to her 2-5mins, number close and leave she wont be invested enough to join. Unless shes very interested or just a cheap slut.

5
If shes highly interested in you she will invite you herself. You just make her laugh, give her a good time and if shes up for it she will invite you to come over. I think it's better to invite her over when you had a good night with her, it keeps you in control, you lead as a man. You could say 'If you can keep your hands off me I'll invite you for a glass of wine at my place''(offcourse with a ****y big smile on your face) You say that when she showed sexual interest in you, like dancing and making out with you. If you didnt made a physical move yet, just find out what interests her and tell her you got something fun to show her at your place she would like. (art, a movie, your piano hell idk be creative)

If shes very interested, makes out with you and all that, invite her and her friend home and call one of your homeboys for her friend and enjoy. Try to act quickly when she agrees to leave, don't give her time to think it true and remember her ex-boyfriend who she loves. Get your jacket call your friend and leave.

Be Bold
Be Sexual
Be Confident
Don't care about rejection at all, once you are indifferent towards rejections and forget about your ego the games finally begin
Laugh
Have Fun
No girl can affect your mood

Enjoy

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

1. The last time I went to a proper night club, I found that drunkenly dancing up to random girls was the most effective method. But seriously, don't be drunk, but have confidence to just approach people. You're all there for the same reason, and that is to socialise.

2. Personally, I never attempt to 'isolate'. It places expectation on everyone concerned and pressure on the situation. If your game is hot enough and the bird is interested, you don't need to 'isolate'. I've always found the term 'isolate' in terms of game, a bit.... rapey.

3. This sounds complicated. In fact a lot of the official/technical 'game' strategies sound overly-complicated and over-thought. Just be natural and do what comes naturally. The place might be wall-to-wall with moose, in which case all this over-thinking and planning was for nothing; being confident in what you want to happen is far better than 'planning' to this level of detail.

Also, don't text her to go to a party; chances are she'll miss the text and/or have that as an excuse not to reply/go. Go up to her like A MAN and invite her, face to face.

4. If you're already kissing and fondling each other before home time, it's a good indication you can ask her back without coming of as a desperate sex pest. However, if you are yet to even kiss (having spent a good while working her), get her number. The more you practice this, the better you will get at it. Dynamism is the key my friend; just don't be boring and you're fine.

5. I always prefer my place. But anyway, see point 4. Also, you can always just ask outright, 'assume the sale'. You can always use the ruse of 'missing the last train' etc, etc, then end up 'on the couch' (where you actually end up in their bed). With this though you run the risk of boner-defying spooning, which will basically kill any current or future hope of getting your balls wet with this bird in particular.

Just be confident. Be natural. Assume that every bird wants your balls in her mouth. But not arrogantly so. Then you wont have to act on anything. They do all the walking and the talking.

 

[Peterpack]

This video by Gambler aka Richard La Ruina about Nightgame is very good

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE

 

[Father Joseph]

Thanks for the replies, I think it would be a good idea to try to keep this as,a ongoing thread if you wanna give general tips and advice on this topic.