"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tips on how to prepare succesfully for a Phone Interview!

AAAgent

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ok well since i bombed my phone interview last time around what are some good tips.

Obviously doing you our DD on the company and the position.
(last time i study the company and the position a few hours a day. i looked over everything the position entails but the interviews went even further. now i know i should not leave out any detail and just over prepare)

Tell me about yourself question: fully professional but respond throughout the interview in a friendly manner as to convey social likability.

Thank You email.

don't get sucked into their mind games like last time.


Any other tips for veteran interviewers or the older mature crowd.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigjohnson

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Display enthusiasm for the subject matter or problem domain. It's not just a job to you, it's something you love to deal with.

Obviously as appropriate .....
 

CGE333

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Stand up during the interview. You will automatically sound more attentive and enthusiastic.

I would have written out and rehearsed answers to all the FAQ's you are likely to get asked.

At the end, tell them you are interested in the job and close for the next steps.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Here are the tips I used to land my current job through a phone interview.

1. Prepare note cards with common interview questions and study them. You can pick up job interview books in most libraries. Study them to prepare. These books often have excellent canned responses to questions.

2. Be enthusiastic, but don't act desperate. Don't call them after the interview asking if you got the position. Don't send them thank you emails. These tactics are a waste of time and have never gotten me anywhere IMO.

3. If the interview is in the morning eat a good breakfast prior to taking the interview.

4. Research the company and its history you're applying for. One of the common questions you'll get is "so what do you know about our company?"
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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