"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tips on getting hotties

JdelaSilviera

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This is what worked for me with the last two 8´s I got.

I call this "low" tactics cause are things that can work with almost any guy despite his value, and keep women interest for a while.

You know women are hypergamous (men also, but it doesn´t matter), so they want a man that is superior to them. So what do you have to do? It is simple, you have to treat them as inferior. And if you behave like a higher status guy for a while, she will see you has a superior man.

So how you do that, you can talk to them as if they were your silly sister, talk in a manly, paternal condescending way. It makes them feel more girly.

Make them understand that beauty is common (mystery), and even if they are better looking than you, they are still lower than you. You should also tell them, and point them out girls that you think that are more attractive than them. Tell them you only go for very hot, young girls.

Make them do favours for you and even give them orders. You´ll be astonished by how passive and obedient women can be.

Acting ****y, funny is also a must. Neg, make fun of them (be careful not to hurt their feelings though).

Don´t answer their phone calls or texts often.... you´ll see that they´ll call you and text you even more, with texts like "honeyy please answer", the more you ignore the more disarmed they feel. They feel they have no power over you.

Make them jealous by hitting on their hot friends.

So by now you should understand why is so harmful to chase women, it makes you look as inferior, and you don´t want that. That´s why you guys here have so many flakes going on.

This will get you to make out, or have sex with them. To keep them you have to become a successfull guy...
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gray The Prince

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To make your advice more effective, add examples from your own experiences, because I read the whole thing and it felt like mental masturbation.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
This is what worked for me with the last two 8´s I got.

I call this "low" tactics cause are things that can work with almost any guy despite his value, and keep women interest for a while.

You know women are hypergamous (men also, but it doesn´t matter), so they want a man that is superior to them. So what do you have to do? It is simple, you have to treat them as inferior.

So how you do that, you can talk to them as if they were your silly sister, talk in a manly, paternal condescending way. It makes them feel more girly.

Make them understand that beauty is common (mystery), and even if they are better looking than you, they are still lower than you. You should also tell them, and point them out girls that you think that are more attractive than them. Tell them you only go for very hot, young girls.

Make them do favours for you and even give them orders. You´ll be astonished by how passive and obedient women can be.

Acting ****y, funny is also a must. Neg, make fun of them (be careful not to hurt their feelings though).

Don´t answer their phone calls or texts often.... you´ll see that they´ll call you and text you even more, with texts like "honeyy please answer", the more you ignore the more disarmed they feel. They feel they have no power over you.

Make them jealous by hitting on their hot friends.

So by now you should understand why is so harmful to chase women, it makes you look as inferior, and you don´t want that. That´s why you guys here have so many flakes going on.

This will get you to make out, or have sex with them. To keep them you have to become a successfull guy...
Chasing is our job as males. The problem with most guys is that they don't know how or when to chase. There's nothing wrong with letting a girl know you're interested, its the level of interest you display to her.

I pretty much agree with the post, its how I took down girls out of my league but for guys who's personalities aren't jerk-like/aloof/over the top by nature will struggle implementing this.
 

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i actually did all this to a chic i was serious about a year back. at that time i was aloof. wouldn't respond to her good night texts, wouldn't receive her calls every time(she called 4 times a day) etc. Thing was I actually considered her inferior to me. And this was the time when her IL was close to 100%. I started developing feelings for her eventually and we became official, then a stage came where I put her on the pedestal and all hell broke loose. Disrespect, utter disregard of my feelings, breaking up and making up every now & then the whole dysfunctional package.

The OPs advice is very REAL. You dont have to be a mannerless caveman but always behave like you have the higher value. This gal I mentioned earlier used to call me up before her important exams just to make sure that she receives my good wishes, would take amazing care for me when i was suffering from fever, etc & she had known me just for a few weeks ; all the while I wouldn't care coz I just didn't feel it for her.
 

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Yes Sinnerman . This is real advice, that has worked with several girls... with these two eights I was not expecting though.

I remember reading something on seduction tuition, about using push pull routines. It was a line that was something like this: "oh you have a great smile" than you would count your fingers and say something like "actually I have seen 5 girls with gorgeous smiles, out of them you are placed third, I´m now calling you number 3"

The girl was supposed to say "I want to be number one", and you would give her number 2, something like that.

I tried this and the effect just blew my mind, cause the response was exactly the same as the text predicted. And the girl totally melted after this and was all over me all of a sudden.

This pua stuff really works... you just have to be congruent and not act nervous.

About chasing Kirro, I agree, you must have initiative or things won´t happen. But after a while you should have spiked a lot of interest, and then she will started bombing you with phone calls and texts, when you are the one taking initiative all the time, things won´t work.

Women are much more easy to manipulate than you think. And I tell you that I would have much more problems leaving my girl with mystery than with a guy with sixpack..... A smart player can completly mess up a girls mind....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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one question :

lets say you have the hottie in your palms. now if you dont have feelings for her... great. she just provides you ego boosts. but what about if you think about her as a potential partner or start developing feelings for her eventually like it happened in my case. you cant remain totally aloof. you have to do the relationshipy stuff. so how to balance the jerkish image that spikes up attraction while also taking care of her and being there for her etc to provide stability and also coz you just feel like doing it for that person
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
This will get you to make out, or have sex with them. To keep them you have to become a successfull guy..
Well said. Your advice is a nice summary of PUA tactics, which are almost always aimed at short term success. A lot of it involves faking that you are a high value guy. And as you note, if you want to keep a girl, you have to actually be a high value guy.

High value or not, a lot of that mindset is good to have. That bit about beauty being common, for instance. Yeah, she may look pretty hot, but face it, every woman has a pair of tits, so she's replaceable.
 
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