Tips For Snagging a Waitress

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

djroc

New Member

Oct 25, 2010

Galactus said:
But nowadays, I think it's probably all right to whip out the cell phone. Sh!t, she'll probably be talking on one while taking your order. Or texting.

Started reading the thread and thought 'no cell phone wtf?!' And then I noticed the original date. Ha.. how things have changed.

Good info. Trying to pickup a waitress is just like trying to pickup a stripper. You'll probably spend less money calling an escort.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.