"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anybody have any stories where they've found success on Tinder?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good Gao

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I wonder if it is even possible these days compared to when the app first came out. One of my friends is a handsome dude and he just started Tinder this week, cleans up on Plenty Of Fish but as soon as he started Tinder, no luck. Not even one match so far other than a couple of bots.
 

wifehunter

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I heard theres plenty of 5luts and skanks. Tinder seems "low value" to me.
 

stovepipe

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I'm striking out on all apps. Had a date set up with a chick on POF, but she suddenly stopped messaging back. Guess I need to stop putting chicks on a pedestal, seems to scare them off. So much got damn work to get in a chicks pant that Im about to just give up all together and move into a cabin the woods.
 

Bayne05

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I have a couple of fvck buddies I met there, but most of them I just pump and dump. But I've heard the app sometimes has glitches which causes people to get no matches.

But dating sites in general are getting a bit dull, it's crowded and the girls have become stuck-up b!tches from all the attention they get from thousands of men. Pretty sure the rich guys are getting the most tail from there now, women will always choose money over looks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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When it becomes mainstream you get the afcs and the attention wh0res and at that point is done for everyone.
 

Roober

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I haven't been having any luck on an OLD in the last two months, I only use bumble and POF on occasion now because it turns out to be a complete waste of time. Once I get in better shape and get some solid pics, I may give it another go
 
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