"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tinder openers general

ProteinShakee

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In this thread let's share and talk about opener lines that we use on Tinder and explain why we choose them.
For me, i frequently ask right off the bat 'if you could wake up tomorrow and be anywhere in the world, where would you pick?'
It has worked wonders for me because firstly you separate yourself from the rest of the boring 'hey how are you' guys and second and most important it is great to screen the girl and give you a very rough estimation of her maturity and about whether she will be able to hold a conversation of a basic level, for example if a girl replies with 'somewhere where i'm happy' or 'somewhere where my friends are' you immedietaly know that she's probably not worth your time if you're the type who enjoys a more intellectual connection in your dates, whereas if she replies with something that shows she actually has some awareness of the world around her (for example one decent reply i got was 'the worlds biggest library') then she might be a better prospect than the more simple-minded alternative from the trashpool of women on Tinder.
Of course my reasoning is entirely subjective and i expect a difference of opinion with each different individual.
What openers do you like to use and why?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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