"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tinder is a goldmine!

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I recommend every guy here make one. This place is a goldmine for slvts. I'm in College and see a bunch of girls from my school on there, assuming looking for booty calls. I just got mine today already got some matches and numbers. Don't bother looking at the pics just like every profile that comes up and the ones that like you back you can message, so just go from there and select the attractive girls like that. Really high success rate, and if not it's a good way to practice text game. So it's a win-win:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's funny seeing all these Tinder testimonies coming in now. Lol. They're all true though. I've lost track of the women I've banged on there. Fvcking sluts the whole lot of them.
 
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Dutchmaster, that's EXACTLY what i thought when i got mine like a month ago. I've gotten plenty of numbers, but nothing to show for it.

I know El Payaso has had great success from it, but i dont have much to show for it. I changed up my pics to ones that show of my physique better, as well as better head shots, so we'll see if that helps.

Not trying to bring you down or anything, game on.
 
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First it was myspace, facebook, then POF, and now Tinder. I bet a lot of those chicks used all of them banging dudes. 2 years from now something new will pop up where you can get free pvssy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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stuck, what to write next

Installed tinder today and got a few matches but there's this one girl that seems interested and we've exchanged a few messages. This is the last we've written.
Me: Are you in **** (city name)?
Her: Sadly, right now I'm in **** (another city about 50 miles away)
Me: That's going to make our love affair a lot harder, don't you think?
Her: Huge problem!

Now... I said that out of the blue, the convo was not flirtatious in any way before that, but come on, it's tinder. I don't know if that's a "get lost creep" or "keep going".

What do you guys think? and what would be a good comeback?
Best regards!
 
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CaptainSaveAh0

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Vice said:
Lay reports or GTFO
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THIS.

I have like 70 matches on tinder out of that I've gotten about 8 numbers and no success yet. Lot of flaking with girls in my area.
 
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aim22 said:
Installed tinder today and got a few matches but there's this one girl that seems interested and we've exchanged a few messages. This is the last we've written.
Me: Are you in **** (city name)?
Her: Sadly, right now I'm in **** (another city about 50 miles away)
Me: That's going to make our love affair a lot harder, don't you think?
Her: Huge problem!

Now... I said that out of the blue, the convo was not flirtatious in any way before that, but come on, it's tinder. I don't know if that's a "get lost creep" or "keep going".

What do you guys think? and what would be a good comeback?
Best regards!
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I think the best reply would be to say, "well, nice chatting with you but I'm going to go out into the real world - the street, coffee shops, grocery stores - and, if I absolutely must, use online tools to find local girls rather than wasting my time trying to build something with a complete stranger who lives 50 miles away."

Only don't say that to her. Say it to yourself. Then do it.
 
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TheCWord said:
I think the best reply would be to say, "well, nice chatting with you but I'm going to go out into the real world - the street, coffee shops, grocery stores - and, if I absolutely must, use online tools to find local girls rather than wasting my time trying to build something with a complete stranger who lives 50 miles away."

Only don't say that to her. Say it to yourself. Then do it.
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Everyone I'll meet in the street, coffee shops, grocery stores and online would be a stranger at first, wouldn't they?
I live in a big city, girls from that rather small town 50 miles away often come on the weekends and party here.

I've read a lot of the DJ bible and lurk on the forum, so believe me I know what behavior is "expected" and what I should aim for in the near future but for now, me still being an AFC, come to this forum and ask specific questions on specific situations that present themselves to me. I'd appreciate if I could get direct help on said situation, instead of a condescending comment.

Though I know you mean well, thanks for the time time you took to answer.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Relax fellas just got the sht a day ago lol. Lay reports soon to come. got 4 matches and 2 numbers out of it so far. Didnt message the other 2 yet, All girls at my school so should be ez.

My boy who put me on found 2 girls on there that he still bangs (met 1 in November, b1tch loves him, the other recently after breaking up with his gf)
 
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