"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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times you have gotten back with an ex?

mtllcanpssy

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What up to all my fellow and aspiring djs. I was just wondering if ya'll could tell me about your experiences with getting back with an ex to those of you that have. As in how/why the two of you hooked up again, and how you got the ex back. Then also what happened after you two got back together. I have been looking for this stuff on the search but cant seem to find it. This is just to basically see how you got the ex back, and what are your experiences with it. If your going to write that one shouldn't get back with an ex, DONT waste my time, by telling me dont get back with the her, etc. I need the advice on getting back with them. Thanks for everything broes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten

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my past experiences have never worked out in the long run to get back together with someone that i have stopped seeing.

sometimes it was worth a chance to see if it would have worked, there was so much concrete left however after breaking up, the relationships were never stable again.

if it is something you need to try because of a desire you have, so be it and good luck.
 

oakraiderz2

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I doubt itll work. For the first few weeks everything would be aight, but then the reason you two broke up will be evident. Ive been there kinda, i just went back to get some though.
 

arutha

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Nah it depends on what the reason was.. Your attitude may have changed since then.

I really think there isn't any techniques, and your only chance is to accept it, move on and don't see her anymore. Go out with other girls and enjoy life.

Then see her a few months later, maybe wind up at the same party or something, and do your usual stuff. Treat her no different to any other girl. Its a bit chancy, but its probably the only way.

I went out with a girl back in February, it ended then we saw each other at a party in June I think.. Went out with her once, then left again. Seen her a couple more times since then, and I think we've got a chance in the next week or so. You just need to completely forget about them and see what happens.
 

Canibus27

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I've only gone out with a ex-girlfriend of mine one time, and it didn't work, so I dumped her.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Luscious

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Used to be my policy to never go back to the well you've pissed in, but it can work.

You'll never know until you try - it's different for everyone. If it wasn't a very acrimonious or bumpy breakup, give it a shot.

The advantage of getting back with an ex is that you don't have to go through all the work all over again. You basically start again pretty close to where you left off, including with physical stuff. That's what I've found.
 
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