Time for me to ask a few questions...:)

[SilverSonnet]

Well, feeling bit confused lads. So, my great friends. I should think the questions I'm about to ask will help LOTS of other people on here.. so here goes..

Question 1.) How do I dance? I'm 14, and I'd like to learn to dance very well, before I hit the clubs and make a dope of myself

Question 2.) How do I express my masculine sexuality? I know it's how through you speak, how you act etc...Well..How does a masculine guy act and be, speak, what kind of stuff does he do. Note: Please DO NOT reply to this question with anything like...Just be yourself. If I stayed the same, I would still be a blubbering AFC idiot.

 

[Nighthawk]

1. Don't overdo it, and don't try and run before you can walk. Just follow the rhythm and don't do the chicken arm special.

2. Find inspiration in confident alpha males you admire - whether its Clint Eastwood or Russell Brand. Then develop your own style.

 

[redspicyflag]

1. You could join a dance club. I was in a breakdancing club for a while and it

helped out.

2. This one's a bit tougher. If you want to come off as an alpha,

body language is what you gotta work on. Try working on your posture and

lifting will help.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I'm white and fat so, by default, I'm a horrible dancer.

Mrs. K is white and sizzling hot and can dance better than any woman on that godawful Dancing with the Has-beens show.

She taught me that dancing is all about rhythm and timing. Leave your ego at the door. When you first start dancing you'll appear from your own judgment a gigantic fool. You'll think you dance worse than that fvcking Penn Gillette (which, I assure you, is not true) but actually it's your ego talking.

Shut it up.

You need a decent partner. You can go to a dance studio for professional lessons or go to a decent club and snake charm the best dancer in the place to help teach you. She'll be grateful because she loves it and women who can dance are the best in bed, so you may just score all the way around.

It's all about committing to the lessons, gaining confidence and kicking your ego in the ass.

 

[Lishy]

I will only attempt to answer one lol

1. It is hard to TELL someone how to dance, why not look at MTV and copy the dancers you admire? Do you have good rythm already? If you have the moves already then you just need to find your own dance style and then practise by yourself until you feel confident!

 

[Magma]

1. why not look at MTV and copy the dancers you admire?

Yikes...:nervous:

Look, Silver. Dancing is all about enjoying yourself and not giving a FVCK! what others think. That's how you dance, and that's how you display your masculinity.

But my real advice is to stop worrying about displaying masculinity as a 14 year old.

Respect.

 

[Quiksilver]

Take dance classes. I find guys get special treatment in dance classes. My gf last year convinced me to take a few lessons and, while it didn't compare to watching a hockey game with cold beer and hot chicken wings, it wasn't terrible.

Its all about rhythm and how you move your hips. Just man up and take some dance lessons if you want to learn how to dance.

 

[SilverSonnet]

Thanks to all the replies. After my Kickboxing starts up, I'll take up Dancing.

There's so much I want to learn...

-Dancing
-Martial arts (Kickboxing, Brazilian Jujitsu, Jujitsu)
-Guitar
Just a few of many..