"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Throw in the towel or keep going?

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-I’ve been pursuing a 9 for three months now. We have talked off and on.

-I visit her at work sometimes and we make out in the parking lot in my car.

-Last weekend she was on her period so I didn’t try to bang her but I sucked on her boobs and made out. Not bad.

She said she likes he way I look, my voice, and grab her and our physical comparability is insane but she doesn’t know about mentally or personality wise. Not sure what that means or how to approach it. Should I try to be her friend?

Her working 80 hours a week and genuinely not having time for anything other than work has killed my interest a bit. I do like her....just not sure if I should throw in the towel or dissapear for awhile. The chick looks exhausted and overworking herself as a cpa. I think she wants to **** me, but is doubting our emotional connection and wondering if I’m gonna hit it and quit it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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captain55 said:
but is doubting our emotional connection and wondering if I’m gonna hit it and quit it.
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You answered your own question! She's giving you as much of herself physically as possible without being sure of your true intentions. I've been working a woman similar to your's for sometime. The key is the emotional connection and building trust with women like that. The good news is they're not the typical sloots that don't mind the pump and dump or have grown out of it. The one I'm working on finally came over to my place a few days ago and I showed her that we can just chat, talk about relationships, life in general etc without it turning into sexual. We then made out passionately and she left my place saying 'this was nice, you know just us chatting and hanging out like this...too bad we both have work tomorrow but I can do this again'. This is the same woman who told me a couple of dates ago that she didn't feel comfortable coming over to my place yet. She was right, I mean people feel what they feel but now she's starting to develop feelings for me because I showed her that I'm not some cave man who can't control himself. She knows what I want and it's what she wants too but in due time. Believe it or not even for me it really was enjoyable to just hang out, make out, kino - because just playing the game sometimes is plenty fun even if you don't hit the home run every time.

So all this to say, slow your roll, don't be 'friends' with her though...talk...connect...gain her trust.
 
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