Threesomes

[anonymous12345]

I’m kinda bored, a bit frustrated so I’m considering joining a couple in a threesome. Both men are hetero. It would be via a web site, no prior relationships with them.

A lot of biases for all of us here, but threesomes seems common among kiddos these days. I have no experience and little knowledge in this area, so I wonder:

What are the possible negative consequences for me, and how do I address them? I can think of these:

• STDs. This can be solved through tests, trust and protection
• That their relationship is wrecked, but that’s not my concern. They do their choice, I do mine.
• Social, legal risk for me. My name strung out on some web site, their relationship problems affect me in some way.
• Unreliable, complicated, damaged people (?). This can be addressed by communication.
• Consequences for future relationships. My future oneitis says "Well, if you've been having threesomes, then ...". Fun.
• Psychological damage to me. We know for instance the statistics on women’s problems with pair bonding with increasing partners, so I’d say it’s safe to theorise this kind of activity can be bad for men as well. Jaded, black-pilled, future relationship problems.

Anything else, any other consequences? Generally, what’s your take on threesomes? Is it worth it?

Does consequences change with FFM vs. MMF?

In short: it seems to be an excellent drug, the question is if it’s worth it.

 

[Redwolf]

I've done several MFM with friends. It's a blast if you can find the right people and do it safely. You can learn a lot sexually in these situations as most people that are into this are very open and good communicators.

 

[Hal9000]

Its a threesome, not a bank robbery. Its one night and its unlikely to ruin your life or anything. Try it and see what you think. Maybe you love it, maybe you hate it. MFMs are definitely less tricky than MFFs and since you are basically the stunt c0ck in this scenario you don't really have much to lose.