"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Three Year Itch....

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Dear All,an insightful article...One third the sex!!!!!....
Forget seven years: modern love faces three-year itch
From Cleo Magazine
10 Mar, 2011
Longer working hours and added financial pressure are contributing to the trend of many relationships going pear-shaped after just three years, new UK research has found.
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Modern couples need not fear the seven-year itch, but can expect their romance to cool off and endure more arguing after just three years together, the study found.
The survey of 2000 UK adults in steady relationships found 67 percent of people said small irritations with partners only became major issues around the three-year mark.
The study was commissioned by Warner Brother to coincide with the UK release of Owen Wilson's new movie, Hall Pass.
Time couples spent arguing rose from an average of 1.2 hours a week for those who have been together for less than three years to 2.7 hours per week for couples who've passed their three-year anniversary, the study said.
As for sex, the news isn't much better. Couples past the three-year mark can expect to have less than a third as much sex as newer couples.
"Longer working hours combined with money worries are clearly taking their toll on modern relationships," pollster Judi James said.
Study participants cited weight gain, worrying about money, antisocial working hours, drinking too much and hard-to-handle in-laws as the primary romance killers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's not that hard the more women are entitled,"independent",obnoxius and with attitude and the less relationships are gonna last.

The average modern man cannot be a pvssy/accomodating/tolerant any more than he already is,so the reason of breakups are not on him.

Just cut out 50% of the male population and women are not going to be so annoying since their ability to replace a partner as easily as if he was a bag or a pair of shoes would disappear.
Just imagine a kid who would trade his parents any time they don't give him what he wants,or simply because he saw on tv an other kind of parents he would like to try.
 

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Just cut out 50% of the male population and women are not going to be so annoying since their ability to replace a partner as easily as if he was a bag or a pair of shoes would disappear.
Isn't it true though, that most guys here on this forum are not interested in having a "partner"? Isn't it true that what they really want are an endless supply of "plates"?
 

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zekko said:
Isn't it true though, that most guys here on this forum are not interested in having a "partner"? Isn't it true that what they really want are an endless supply of "plates"?
Yeah just like that most guys on the internet are 6'5 tall and have arnold's body because they train with fedor every morning,except on sunday when they hang around with their bmw.
 

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Strelok said:
Yeah just like that most guys on the internet are 6'5 tall and have arnold's body because they train with fedor every morning,except on sunday when they hang around with their bmw.
So you're saying most guys here really just want a relationship, but instead portray their goal as screwing everything that moves just to appear more badass? Interesting.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko said:
So you're saying most guys here really just want a relationship, but instead portray their goal as screwing everything that moves just to appear more badass? Interesting.
I'm saying that most of the guys in this site would be fine to get a girl and live their life without too many complications,even if they were "spinning plates" the reason was to avoid turning back into afc and lose the girl or at least thats why many suggest that behaviour(to protect themselves from flakers and increase the chances to have things working).

Anyway being yourself a half century old you should know better than me that words are cheap and every man is a king when it comes of words.
 
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