just a quick thought, PERFECT IS BORING why do we improve ourselves then, isnt the point to of IMPROVEMENT to be perfect, i mean you can be perfect in your own view and not in other peoples, but im just questioning, tyler durdens thoughts in fight club were interesting, self destruction is the key according to him, he also says "only once you have lost everything can you truly be free" which i think is true, what do you guys think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thoughts on self improvement??
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