"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thoughts on Provocative Act doctrine

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Forms

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I think this post is going to be locked by the time I wake up in the morning.
 

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This law can affect all races... this might turn into a racial thread.. yes.. a RACIAL HARMONY thread that is.. I think people of all colors are going to collectively say WTF
 

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"Only God knows what happened in that house," she said. "But this I know: My son did not murder his childhood friends."

Damn, though. The sad part is that he DID. That is really a sad story, for every single person involved.
 

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I don't think this law is stupid at all but I don't think it should apply to this particular case. As someone stated before if you were getting chased by a car and a cop hit someone else and killed that person while chasing you, you should be convicted of murder. It was your fault that that person died. If you weren't such an idiot and went on a high speed chase it would of never happened. In this case though these guys went in and burglarized the house and beat up the kid on their own will. Nobody forced them to commit this crime. They didn't have a gun pointed to their heads. They did it on there own will. The guy who got away didn't make them do it. Just because the guy ended up escaping doesn't mean he should take the fall and be convicted of murder. They all went in and robbed the place together, all on their own will. Whatever happened was there own fault. Buglary and assualt yes, murder, hell no. Secondly I'm sick of people keep on saying racist this racist that. These idiots went into someones home beat a kid in the head with a bat and left permanent brain damage to him and try to rob a guy. They get what was coming to them. The guy was scared and was just trying to protect his family. How is that racist? Then that lady says they had their backs turned. Ummm yeah if someone pulled out a gun the first thing I would do is run. Should he have killed them? I don't know. Do I think he should be in trouble for it, nope. Did what he had to do. To be honest I have no idea what I would of done. But I think what he did was justified. I don't feel sympathy for criminals.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The only thing racist about the story is the people who act like it's racism everytime a black (or any non-white person) commits a crime and is charged for it.

It's not that uncommon at all to be charged with murder if while commiting a crime some else gets killed. I do think the law is too broadly defined but the truth is most criminal laws are.
 
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