"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This woman puzzles me

NeedToImprove

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remember the woman i told you about that was commenting about other guy with her female friends?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103653

ok i don't know what she wants, today we again had a big convo during lunch about relationships with her 2 friends, she saying that love comes from a great friendship, it was a great convo in which i learned alot about women. she's hurt i noticed that, and she said she has no one but she's fine without a relationship, that she needs time for her and her daughter. but something about her makes me think she digs me. she added me in hi5 (its like myspace ) i told her:hey u added me in your hi5 but i noticed you dont have many friends... she: yeah i'm picky in choosing my friends, i only choose those who know me well enough (i only know her for 2 weeks).

also a little something that happened, was she went to get a coffee for her, and asked me if i wanted one too. i said, dont bother, i will get one in the coffee machine before classes, then she came with 3 coffees, one for her, one for her female friend and one for me and she payed mine, i wanted to pay it but she refused.

also we had to get to class at 2 o'clock but we sat in a garden nearby and talked for almost 2 hours, about foods, favourite drinks, her childhood, her and mine childhood cartoons, man i never felt so great between those 3 girls, they treat me well, and they are ****in' hot, i dont know what image i gave, because most girls dont respect me, but everything is going great. i just dont understand that particular woman...

for example when she's online at msn she never talks to me, also she never asked for my cell phone, and i never felt a vibe (confidence ) to ask for hers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It really not da complicated...

NeedToImprove said:
remember the woman i told you about that was commenting about other guy with her female friends?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103653

ok i don't know what she wants, today we again had a big convo during lunch about relationships with her 2 friends, she saying that love comes from a great friendship, it was a great convo in which i learned alot about women. she's hurt i noticed that, and she said she has no one but she's fine without a relationship, that she needs time for her and her daughter. but something about her makes me think she digs me. she added me in hi5 (its like myspace ) i told her:hey u added me in your hi5 but i noticed you dont have many friends... she: yeah i'm picky in choosing my friends, i only choose those who know me well enough (i only know her for 2 weeks).

also a little something that happened, was she went to get a coffee for her, and asked me if i wanted one too. i said, dont bother, i will get one in the coffee machine before classes, then she came with 3 coffees, one for her, one for her female friend and one for me and she payed mine, i wanted to pay it but she refused.

also we had to get to class at 2 o'clock but we sat in a garden nearby and talked for almost 2 hours, about foods, favourite drinks, her childhood, her and mine childhood cartoons, man i never felt so great between those 3 girls, they treat me well, and they are ****in' hot, i dont know what image i gave, because most girls dont respect me, but everything is going great. i just dont understand that particular woman...

for example when she's online at msn she never talks to me, also she never asked for my cell phone, and i never felt a vibe (confidence ) to ask for hers.
She either likez u or she doezn't..everything of what u posted iz something i girl would do 4 some 1 likez az well az some 1 she juzt considerz a friend (believe it not girlz do have male friendz)..Simply make a move..if she likez she will respond if she doesn't she wont..if she doezn't like u now she wont after 3 hourz conseling sezzionz..if she doez like u now den she will move on if u dont make a move..remember no matter what iz going through ur mind..it iz what it iz and will b what it will b..
YHWH Blezz
prinze royal elite
http://www.myspace.com/faminedadon
 

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You're falling into her friendzone slowly, but surely. Make a move before it's a total joke. The signs she is showing are clearly signs of wanting to be your friend. You might convince yourself otherwise, but it doesn't look like you look upon yourself with an unbiased view. I believe you are just friends and making more out of it probably will not work.
 

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Man the last place you want to be with someone your sexually attracted to is in a friends zone. I wasted 4 dam years thinking if I let this girl really know me and fix her car and be there for her in her needs she would want to be my girlfriend.

One day I finally couldn't take seeing her tight firm ass in skintight jeans anymore and asked for something more she became cold and a ***** it was the most unexpected experience I had ever gone through and to add insult to injury this bit*h marrys her first cousin with a few months after this happen and I didn't even know this cousin she married unreal some women are smelly poots.

Make a move or forever be her big shoulder to lend and cry on.

Gettinthere
 
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