Hi There Folks,
I'm really not into online dating because the possibility of coming across even flakier women is so high and often times, people aren't who they say they are. Nonetheless, in the past few months, I've been taking a chance and posting some personal ads just for fun. Recently, a woman contacted me and I'm starting to get very worried and scared that she might be a potential stalker. Not only doesn't she respond to my specific questions, every e-mail she writes to me reads like a four to five page paper. We haven't even met yet and she already talks about how she thinks I'm the perfect match for her, we share a lot in common and she would like to be my future queen and wife.
It scares me to death and I have just recently decided to stop responding to her because she seems to me like the type who might be a little psychotic. She says she has had lots of heartbreaking experiences with the opposite sex just like me, but her disappointment with men in general reads to me as if she won't tolerate much of any mistakes from whoever may become her next mate and she might be the kind who could even kill depending on the circumstance. She said she ran into her ex-boyfriend a long time ago having sex in their living room with her best friend and that just did it for her.
To illustrate better what I'm talking about here, I have cut and pasted some of her recent messages to me below for you guys to see what's scaring me a whole lot about the way this woman's coming across, at least to me. Here we go:
1) " Honey (we've never met, never talked) in me you are going to find a woman that was blessed with an over abundance of passion to give to the ones I share my heart and soul with. For you to really know me you will have to experience me, as the love that makes up my heart is like a waterfall, where the water never stops flowing down. In this case my heart is the waterfall, and the love and passion that flows endlessly is representing the water. I am a very unique person for many reasons, but one of those is the fact that I can never get enough of romancing that special someone."
"Thank you again for giving me the opportunity to build this special friendship with you!. You will be rewarded for it through the passionate love that makes up my heart and soul!. I am so excited to be able to do what I do best and that is romance you with all the passion that makes up my heart and soul!. My special friendship with you is something I want to make permanent and eventually build into a family to call our very own!
Directly from my heart to yours!
Your Future Queen! (I hope!) (I don't even know her). "
2) "You are really amazing.Inside of me there is a place where my sweetest dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought. Sometimes I bring you there purposely just to make my day brighter. But more often, you surprise me and find your own ways into mythoughts.There are even times when I awaken, I realize that you've been a part of my dreams. Then during the day, when my imagination is free to run, it takes me into your arms and allows me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do. (Whoa!) I know my thoughts are only reflecting the loving hopes of my heart because whenever they wander, they always take me to you. Only the most special things in my world get to come inside my heart and stay. And now, I realize how deeply my life has been touched by you."
"I miss you." (What???)
I'm really not into online dating because the possibility of coming across even flakier women is so high and often times, people aren't who they say they are. Nonetheless, in the past few months, I've been taking a chance and posting some personal ads just for fun. Recently, a woman contacted me and I'm starting to get very worried and scared that she might be a potential stalker. Not only doesn't she respond to my specific questions, every e-mail she writes to me reads like a four to five page paper. We haven't even met yet and she already talks about how she thinks I'm the perfect match for her, we share a lot in common and she would like to be my future queen and wife.
It scares me to death and I have just recently decided to stop responding to her because she seems to me like the type who might be a little psychotic. She says she has had lots of heartbreaking experiences with the opposite sex just like me, but her disappointment with men in general reads to me as if she won't tolerate much of any mistakes from whoever may become her next mate and she might be the kind who could even kill depending on the circumstance. She said she ran into her ex-boyfriend a long time ago having sex in their living room with her best friend and that just did it for her.
To illustrate better what I'm talking about here, I have cut and pasted some of her recent messages to me below for you guys to see what's scaring me a whole lot about the way this woman's coming across, at least to me. Here we go:
1) " Honey (we've never met, never talked) in me you are going to find a woman that was blessed with an over abundance of passion to give to the ones I share my heart and soul with. For you to really know me you will have to experience me, as the love that makes up my heart is like a waterfall, where the water never stops flowing down. In this case my heart is the waterfall, and the love and passion that flows endlessly is representing the water. I am a very unique person for many reasons, but one of those is the fact that I can never get enough of romancing that special someone."
"Thank you again for giving me the opportunity to build this special friendship with you!. You will be rewarded for it through the passionate love that makes up my heart and soul!. I am so excited to be able to do what I do best and that is romance you with all the passion that makes up my heart and soul!. My special friendship with you is something I want to make permanent and eventually build into a family to call our very own!
Directly from my heart to yours!
Your Future Queen! (I hope!) (I don't even know her). "
2) "You are really amazing.Inside of me there is a place where my sweetest dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought. Sometimes I bring you there purposely just to make my day brighter. But more often, you surprise me and find your own ways into mythoughts.There are even times when I awaken, I realize that you've been a part of my dreams. Then during the day, when my imagination is free to run, it takes me into your arms and allows me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do. (Whoa!) I know my thoughts are only reflecting the loving hopes of my heart because whenever they wander, they always take me to you. Only the most special things in my world get to come inside my heart and stay. And now, I realize how deeply my life has been touched by you."
"I miss you." (What???)
