"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This whole forum in one sentence?

taiyuu_otoko

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this forum probably attracts psycopaths, after all the seduction community is one of the few places where they are hero worshipped.
Consider this, of all the products and services ever made to sell to people, "get rich quick" schemes and "how to pick up women" schemes are the probably the ones whose methods are LEAST LIKELY tried.

Which allows the sellers of such courses/ideas/books etc., selling to a HUGE market (lots of poor people and most guys don't get nearly the ladies they want) who will NEVER test the product to know whether or not it's BULLSH!T.

This means these "gurus" can come up with the most idiotic ideas, and their "customers" who keep buying all their junk (both seduction and get rich) without EVER knowing is full of crap.

That is the IDEAL MARKET for sociopaths / snake oil salesman to sell in.

Imagine if you could sell hamburgers nobody would ever eat or shoes nobody would ever wear.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This means these "gurus" can come up with the most idiotic ideas, and their "customers" who keep buying all their junk (both seduction and get rich) without EVER knowing is full of crap.

That is the IDEAL MARKET for sociopaths / snake oil salesman to sell in.
That's an interesting point. Selling product to gullible customers is a perfect occupation for a sociopath, who will manipulate others for his own gain It also explains why many gurus are so fond of sociopaths, they may be sociopaths themselves lol!

I've heard accusations that RSD hires girls to star in their pickup videos and participate in their bootcamps. I don't know if that is true or not, but what better way to show that the product is effective?

I don't think all PUA product or theory is useless though, even if they tend to be overstated or oversold as a whole. There are usually some good ideas you can cherry pick.
 

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Think of your life in the same terms of a home. Because your body and mind is your soul's home. You build yourself up starting with the foundation. You can window shop for accessories while you are in the building process but you won't know for sure what will look / feel right in the space until the building is complete and the address is established.
 
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