"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This one girl..

Schotten

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Well, I'll start with the story..

Usually, I don't do love affairs, and have only been in love very few times, though I'm 18 and have had sex several times.
However I'm on somewhat bare feet when it comes to being in love.

The thing is, I met this girl, and somehow I must have fallen in love with her, however it does not seem to be returned.
I met her to a party, she was kinda drunk and we got into each other, ending up almost having sex. (If it wasn't because that where we slept there was another and it was freezing, we prolly would have.)

So, I drove her home the next day, and by all the way she was just silent. I got her number by our common friend, and texted her, but she seems so cold to me, which I would like to change.

I do not ask for help on how to seduce her to having sex with me, 'cause I know how to do so, but on how to make her becomming in love with me.

Also, she's just moved back to the country, but she speaks almost perfectly danish... But her stepdad (Spelled correctly?) is the priest in a smaller city nearby.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Deryk

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It's impossible to "make" someone fall in love with you, that's manipulation and
she wouldn't be falling in love with you just a disguise of yourself...

It seems as if she feels awkward with what happened and will probably avoid
you.... but your breaking what you should follow... falling in love with someone
you don't know is foolish and will end in punishment... find someone else or
you'll face a broken heart

but just for the record I'd find out somewhere she goes and just "bump" into
her as in run in to each other by accident not ram her off the road or
something (you'd be surprised how many times that gets confused) and if she
still avoids just draw the line
 

nateistoraw

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umm from what it looks like you are not in love. You are infactuated. This chick must be super hot and you are super horny. Also, she may not have said nothing b/c shes amazed that she didnt get laid(probaly wanted a 1-niter) or(||) she wants you to move on.

If shes not at least a 8 in personality then I will say ditch her. I am not talking about her hotness. I am talking about her personality.
 
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